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*fogalilly
writes:I was at a party last week, and some friends and I decided to go to the bar. When I was there I went with a friend to get a drink and I sat in a chair waiting for on my friend to get his drink, when I saw my old flame, he started staring at me, and walked over and leaned up against the wall right across from where I was sitting. I have no idea what this means, we have been over for months, the next night I saw him watching me again.I asked a guy friend and he said that the guy was jealous, of what?
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reader, Danielepew  +, writes (7 May 2010):
 And it's even better not to do anything rather than being taken back, used, and dumped.
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (7 May 2010):
ffogalilly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI still have feelings for him, I have no idea why, but I am just going to let them lie. It hurts still, but I would rather not to anything, than be hurt and rejected.
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reader, Danielepew +, writes (7 May 2010):
I think I could only speculate why he did that. However, if things are over, they are over.
Question: What are your feelings about his staring at you?
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reader, ffogalilly +, writes (7 May 2010):
ffogalilly is verified as being by the original poster of the questionI ended it, we have hung out at the same place for over a year, I just mind my own business. But you're right about how it could be anything, I should just get some guts and go talk to him.
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 May 2010): Um that's weird. I find it weird because he didn't even come to say hi to you? Like why didn't you guys say hi to each other? I just don't get it. I have run into plenty of flames in my life and we say hi to each other! Very casual but courteous. Why didn't you say hi to him either?
Like I went to this bar once and ran into an old flame and he stared at me when he noticed me because he was checking me out (probably couldn't believe he was looking at me) and I noticed he was at the end of the bar waiting in line staring wide eyed over at me. He got what he ordered and then he slowly approached me and came to say hi to me and my friend and joined us for a bit...
but to just stare??...and I find it weird that he would just stare at you and walk towards you without saying hi and just stare at you. That is so creepy. Be careful with this guy...
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (6 May 2010):
He was perhaps jealous that you were out having a good time with other people, or he just wanted to see if he could still get your attention.
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reader, Lucky786 +, writes (6 May 2010):
 Maybe he was just being nosey/curious?
Maybe he wasn't sure it was you and needed a good look? Maybe his eyesight is not what it used to be or...
... maybe he was looking at the chick behind you? Lol! Whatever hun, it's over he is your ex, forget him.
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reader, dirtball +, writes (6 May 2010):
 Maybe he still wants to be with you. Did you end it with him, or did he end it with you? Maybe he was irritated that you were at his hangout. Maybe he was wondering why he was ever with you. Maybe he thought you looked particularly attractive and was wondering if there was any way to get you in the sack.
Way too many things it could be. If I had to choose, I think your friend wasn't far off in his assessment.
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