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writes:Okay, my band teach is starting to act in a way that makes me think he kinda likes me, he's not married, no girlfriend, no kids, you get the point. I mean i liked him but i'm kinda over him. But, my name is Taillour [Taylor] and when he sees me me he always says "Hey Tay!", He's my sunday school teacher and he always looks right at me when he's talking,and he smiles while he's talking. He hugs me a lot more than he used to and tells me he loves me. We a bunch of inside jokes with each other, At marching practice he touched me around where my boobs are, I smiled and laughed and he said "what!?! I'm putting you in to form!!" In the lunchroom when he has duty he stays at my table and just walks around it, and the he has Bathroom duty [akward i know] I always walk over there and he says "hey tay! how are you..." Small talk like that, and he would look at me untill i was outta his view, if he saw me in the hallway he'd wave at me and scream "Hey Tay!!" Right now we are haveing a "penny War" at school and we collect money and stuff and i was putting money in a teacher i hated bucket, and he grabed my hand and said "Tay don't zap her, zap me!" so i did. then he doesn't want me to date anyone. Why would it matter to him??I think he is flirting with me, but Idk, what do you guys think??
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reader, mysterious_blonde_lady  +, writes (3 June 2009):
This is very weird... i dont like what you are saying. The way he is behaving is innappropriate and in the least, creepy. He shouldn't be cuddling or kissing you?????? He;s a teacher! God only knows what this man is playing at; if he does anything else; if he touches you anywhere innappropriate or makes any suggestive comments then i'd avoid him. He sounds like he is being a bit too friendly there. Yick.
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 May 2009): Regardless of whether you find he attractive or get on well with him, he is still your teacher and the way he is acting is not professional in any sense of the word. I am very sure that if your parents/guardians knew, they would see it as him taking advantage. Which he is. I advise you not to act upon anything he suggests etc, and if he touches you in private areas again (breasts), you should insist that he never does it again.
I am shocked at how many teachers get away with this behaviour. It is his duty to look after you, and this is what your parents/guardians expect him to do.
I hope you are safe and well in life, sweetie.
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reader, MusicalMistress +, writes (14 May 2009):
MusicalMistress is verified as being by the original poster of the question At the Penny War today, I zapped him [means i put CASH in his bucket] and i told him, this is wat he said, "Zap me Taillour, Zap Me!!" he also his his ass with the lid to the thingy he was holding. He also makes me late for my classes some times...
When he hugges me he puts his arm around me, then i wrap both my arms around him, then rubs my arm and kisses my head, it's kinds werid. But, i still think he's flirting with me...
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reader, Aida +, writes (12 May 2009):
 yeah i'd also say his behavior is highly inappropriate. i'd tell him to back off, if anyone found out about all that he could lose his job or worse.
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reader, niki20 +, writes (11 May 2009):
 it does sound like hes flirting w/you. you can always bring it up to him to if your not sure. just be like so....why dont you want me to date anyone??
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