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writes:I like a guy on my uni course and ive been told he likes me too. We've kissed a few times when out with mutual friends and for the last few weeks spoke quite a lot on facebook etc. The last week though ive barley heard from him at all and when ive seen him he's been all over another course mate ... is he blowing me off? Im quite shy and never know what to say around him, ages ago when he was drunk he told me that he was nervous around me but with this other girl he's fine! Arghhh where do i stand?!
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reader, anonymous, writes (19 October 2010): Personally I'd ask him but sense hes blowing you off a little with the week your giving him the benefit of the doubt by saying hes shy. I would find out where he stands, let him know where you stand and then make changes accordingly.
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reader, slimfish  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 he may be as shy as you are.
guys tend to get courage when they have had a few drinks in them.
if he likes you he will be back, if not then move on.
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reader, DrPsych +, writes (19 October 2010):
 I sounds as if he is a player with the attention span of one. He may have liked you a lot, but now he has another focus. It happens to us all! Just feel grateful you didn't get too involved with him and accept the situation for what it is. Sooner or later you will meet a man who really thinks a great deal of you and that can be a quality relationship.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (19 October 2010):
 He's moved on. He was into you, but since it never progressed, he has gone onto someone who would progress with him.
A lesson in life should be learned here. If you like someone, don't let them get away. Make your feelings known so that there is no doubt in their mind where you stand. That way, if they leave, you'll know it wasn't because you weren't clear.
I'm sorry this happened, but it could have been worse. At least you didn't sleep with him!
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