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*onfuzzledamethyst
writes:hmm?My boyfriend is very unaware of how I feel about him... he doesnt realise he is pretty much the only thing on my mind that I always want to be with him and if he does'nt text me or gives me a slightly bad impression that will litterally kill me inside... on the last day of term he was alittle distant from me and when I got the chance to ask him if I would see him during the halfterm week he said 'probably' then walked off although-he was in a hurry because his mum was waiting for him to pick him up :3 but he has not texted me all week...I know he does a hell of alot of swimming training and he has alot of family he has to see and pretty much gave me the impression that he would be busy all week and his phone is actually half dead but he never tried to arrange anything with me...I fear he might be going off me but however some of the things he has said and done makes me wonder how he can say that and then go off me within a few days...but whenever I drive past his road I get tingly... and I am completely head over heals in love with him and I don't want anyone else he is my world and I love him soo much but if I think of the thought we might be drifting it kills me and puts me in a state of depression help what do I do?????????
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reader, Dear Mandy +, writes (3 November 2012):
 HI
I understand how you feel, but you have to get out there and be with friends, and not put your soul focus on him as this is what is probably driving him away.Back off a bit, show him you can be Independant and strong on your own and he will be more likely to want to be around you more . No boys want to be with a girl who is acting desperate or clingy. Just chill out and have fun, cause you have all the time in the world for love ok hun. :)
Mandy xx
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (3 November 2012):
 First off you need to stop imagining that he is your world, this is not healthy. Use your free time to enjoy yourself with friends and other people in this world that you love. Guys like nothing better than there girlfriend being independent. When you get older you will grow and learn how to become more independent and realise that a relationship with someone should not involve your entire life. You need to keep a level head. If you feel he is drifting away from you then talk to him and ask him how he feels. However even though he says he loves you, his actions speak louder than that, just remember you deserve to be treated good and do not let anyone do anything other than that. Good luck.
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