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female
age
36-40,
anonymous
writes:My boyfriend and I were having sex and i just wasn't in the mood I asked him could we stop repeatedly but he just pretended like he didn't hear me. I started to think how wrong it was that he wasn't listening to me and started crying, then he got really mad and stormed off and said I was taking the intimacy out of love making. I'm so confused right now and I'm not sure if I even want to be with him anymore. I thought maybe it was just because he was drunk, but he's done this before even when he wasn't and don't get me wrong it's not like I'm never in the mood it's just I feel a huge obligation because we're dating to please him whenever he wants to have sex. He's never been forceful but it just seems he has a blatant disregard for my feelings. What should I do?
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (19 October 2009):
Dump him now. What he did was very wrong. He didn't stop when you asked, and he didn't care, and then stormed off and was angry with you. He's not that great a guy, so imagine what else he will do in the future. Dump him and find a guy who will respect your feelings.
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