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writes:I'm 13. Turning 14. I had unprotected sex three times last week. I told my friend about it. And she told me that I am probably pregnant. I don't really know if I am. I had sex 9-10 days into my menstrual cycle. And the guy didn't pull out. What are the chances that I am pregnant? And do you think I am?
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): well on a normal 28 day cycle people are most likely to get pregant in days 13-15. the sperm survives for 3 days inside the woman before dying so yes there is a very high chance of you been pregnant. you should nevver have unprotected sex! in fact at your age i wouldnt recommend having sex at all! it brings a lot of responsibilities. using a condom is 1 of them! unprotected sex can cause STIs so go and get checked out at a clinic. Even if you appear to be symptom free some STIs have no symptoms.
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reader, anonymous, writes (28 August 2008): I know love as no boundries or age or gender,
but this wha you ahve doe is an act that should have been done with love and not curiosity. sex is something for people who have a wider understandment of it, but i know you probably wont hear to ay of us,
so Yes. the chances of you not being pregnant are lower t hn the chances of you being. yo should take a pregnancy test anyways to confirm it. and if you are you shoudl discuss it with your parents and the father of the baby.
no matter what part o you cycle you are, you can ALWAYS get preganant. bare that knowlege in mind. or attend biology lessons!
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reader, PsyCookie +, writes (28 August 2008):
 I would want to really say that this would be poetic justice, but it's really unfair for the child.
So, what you have to go get a pregnancy test and check if you're pregnant. That's the only way, besides going to the doctor, to find out if you're pregnant.
If you're not, then smack your head for being so stupid. Having unprotected sex once makes you foolish, but it's dismissable as a mystake, but 3 times is just plain stupid. So next time you're going to have sex, use a condom. They're not there to prevent pregnancies, STD's too.
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (28 August 2008):
 You've been doing everything that a woman who wants to become a mother does. I guess you're hoping for that to happen?
Anyway, there's no way for us to tell if you are pregnant. You need to buy a pregnancy test at the drugstore, read the instructions and follow them, including the timing of when you take the test. Then you will know.
Here's some information on how pregnancy happens. I think you are playing russian roulette with your health and your future. If you're old enough to have sex, you're old enough to be responsible and knowledgeable about it.
And if you're not responsible about it, that just proves to the world that you are not ready and are in fact too young and ignorant to be having sex.
So buy some condoms, stop having unprotected sex unless you are planning to become a mother, and keep in mind that there are some nasty little things called sexually transmitted diseases. STDs are easily spread when you don't use a condom.
Personally, the fact that you're in this situation should tell you that you should wait a few years until you've had some time to learn about sex and pregnancy and all that...
Here's a place to start.
http://websrvr40nj.audiovideoweb.com/avwebdsnjwebsrvr4501/portal/media/media-050516-pregnancy.html
And then go here and do some reading up.
http://www.teenwire.com/topics/birth-control-and-safer-sex.php
Please do yourself and your family a favor and use protection.
Good luck.
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reader, saltwater  +, writes (28 August 2008):
 You seem pretty unfazed about the possibility of being pregnant. You do know the implications of being pregnant don't you?
For goodness sake, 3 times unprotected and you're only 13?
I hope this is a fake post.
If it isn't, then I hope you're not pregnant; a baby doesn't deserve to have an irresponsible mother like you.
Buy a pregnancy test.
And in future, use a condom. Though I guess I'm wasting my breath...
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