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female
age
51-59,
*hippy2
writes:Please help me - My bf logged in at a dating site again right after he was unhappy with me - He also has been texting his ex-fiance ( they have no children together) I pay for his phone and I am asking all of you how I should tell him I am concerned fed up confused - I am not sure what to do - He invited me to breakfast this morning and that went ok - usually we end back at his house but today he said he had things to do and so did I so he would see me later - Huh? I am so hurt again by his actions - he had asked me to marry him by text last weekend then said he was not serious - He has started to call me names and pick at things and show less affection than ever!What do I say HOW do I say I am concerned? Or do i just jump ship - WE have had a fairly wonderful time for the past three years - but since I found out about the dating sites and the text to ex I have been sick inside - I said I wasnt happy with it and he just ignored the conversation - Please advice!
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (6 May 2008):
 Hi Chippy, I've read your previous questions and problems with this man. I think it's time to jump ship, end it with him. He is not helping you in your recovery and treatment and I think it's time for you to listen to your daughter and the advice you've had here. You're only going to feel worse if this continues. At the very least, go on a 3 month break from him, while you work on your own mental health and then revisit the idea of a relationship with him when you're more centered and strong.
Sorry to give this advice, I wish I could wave a magic wand and make him see that you deserve better treatment, but you're going to have to be strong and think about your daughter first and yourself of course as well!
Tell him that the phone is no longer your responsibility and cut it off; he can come up with the funds himself, if it's that important to him.
All the best.
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