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writes:I have been living with my partner for over 20 years. We were married for the first 6 years. We get on very well (but there is no sexual relationship - just do not fancy him in that way!)Was almost tempted some while ago with a new friend who I am quite attracted to. Would it be so wrong? Reply to this Question
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reader, Bella55  +, writes (9 March 2007):
Well you dont have much time. I would even go as far as asking him if you could sleep with someone. Im sure he wont mind. My boyfriend is a whole lot older than me, and he has allready given me permission to have sex with younger guys when hes 70. Not that id want to. But really, if youre no having sec and you really want to, go for it!
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reader, eyeswideopen  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 Well I guess you have to decide whether sparing his feelings is more important to you than this sexual attraction to your other friend. I mean if it is really going to cause your live-in Ex emotional pain, then I would think very hard before I act.
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reader, marlow +, writes (9 March 2007):
marlow is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThe main reason i am still with him is because we have equal shares in the house,I do feel secure and yes we are like brother and sister.Maybe i am too soft but he thinks the world of me and i would hate to hurt his feelings.Should have split up when we got divorced,but too late for that.He is 77 and i am a young 69!!
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reader, aunty t  +, writes (9 March 2007):
 I see no harm in this at all. This set up is very unusual and very rare. Why are you still in this relationship is he more like a brother or friend that you feel secure with. Whatever your reasons go for it with your friend and get some spice into your life.
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reader, Bella55 +, writes (9 March 2007):
Let me get this right. You are living with your partner of which you WERE married for the first 6 years. Now youre divorced and you dont have a sexual relationship with him.At all? Yes, go shag whoever you want. Can I ask why you are still with him?
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