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writes:he is away and can't talk much ... i told him i wanted a break through voicemail ... then he wouldn't talk to me so i took it back ... and days went by and he texted me he wanted a break and we needed to decide if we could "handle this" meaning the relationship ... we have only been dating for almost two months but we have been through so much worse than this ... is it over?? for good??? i don't want to lose him i really care about him no guy compares to him and im sorry for saying that ... i told him that (through text and voice mail he won't talk to me) what do i do?? are we really over?? should i wait or find a rebound guy and start moping???
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reader, MidtownToDowntown  +, writes (16 August 2008):
I know this isn't what you want to hear, but even though you appear to really like this guy, he's no good for you, you deserve better.
He comes across as very immature. If he was serious about your relationship he would A) be TALKING to you, like an adult and B) be doing everything to try and fix things between you.
I know you really like him but maybe it would be better for YOU if you did break up. I mean, this guy won't even talk to you to try and patch things up like an adult. Plus, you two have been only dating for two months and already ye are talking about taking breaks? It sounds like it just wasn't meant to be.
Don't go for a rebound guy because you could end up regretting it.
Sorry to come across as extremely harsh.
Best of luck.
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reader, Mark25  +, writes (16 August 2008):
 Don't jump into a rebound relationship. That's the worst thing that you could do. You will,ultimately, end up feeling worse than you do now. I know you're heartbroken at the minute and feel that no other man compares to him but, I promise you, give it time and you will find someone who is even better. Your ex will just become a distant memory. I know it's a cliche but it is true - time is a great healer of all things. There's nothing wrong with moping. You're upset. Spend a while being upset and, before you know it, you'll be back to your old self.
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reader, scorpio123 +, writes (16 August 2008):
 Heya, First of all what do you mean "away and can't talk much"?Well, he said the pair of you needed to decide could you handle the relationship, so that shows he wasn't just going to give up.You said he's not talking to you even though you left him texts and voicemails, maybe he just needs tme to think, or like you said at the start he can't talk much?I think you still have a chance, and if you really like this man then fight for your relationship don't just let him go and then regret it.Also, don't find a rebound guy as that will just complicate things more!Take care xx
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