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Went swimming with cousin, had sex, then went home to my wife

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Question - (1 June 2009) 3 Answers - (Newest, 2 June 2009)
A male United Kingdom age 41-50, anonymous writes:

Hi, I was visiting family in another part of the country this weekend, and my cousin and I had to go to another town to run an errand. Whilst driving back, through open countryside, we stopped for a drink and a cigarette, and noticed a gorgeous little pond / lake across a field. I mentioned how inviting it looked, and how if I was on my own or with my wife I'd go down there, strip off, and have a swim. She said she'd never done anything like that, but would love to as she'd probably never get the chance again (she is the same age as me).

I don't know why, but we walked down there and I stripped down to my underwear. I sort of tried to back out at this point, she was still fully dressed and I said I probably shouldn't get in the water as my (white) boxers would go see through when they got wet. She said it wouldn't bother her, so I asked if she'd mind if I took them off so they were dry when I got out. She thought about it for a second but said it was ok, so I dropped my pants and dived in.

I then watched her strip off, and to my shame, I soon had an erection. She jumped in alongside me and bumped into me. She inhaled sharply and looked at me, as if in shock. I swam away, as embarrassed as I have ever been in my life, she told me not to worry, and that nobody would ever know. The water was lovely and warm yet her breasts still looked firm, her nipples erect and inviting. I mustn't have hidden my desires well as she asked if I liked what I saw. I did, and I told her so, and we spent nearly an hour making love, and although I am sure it is wrong, it was the best thing ever.

I slept with my wife that night but could only think of my cousin. How can I get this out of my head?

Thanks,

Darragh.

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A male reader, GrimmReality United States +, writes (2 June 2009):

GrimmReality agony auntWow I have heard it all now...."to my shame, I soon had an erection":.

What a bunch of bullshit. You don't just "stop by the pond" and decide to skinny dip with your cousin!

And on top of it all...she says no one will ever find out, you bone your cousin and have sex with your wife that very night. You had every intention of doing this...both of your warped asses did

I thought Onslo from "Keeping Up Appearances" was the only Hillbilly in Britain!

I don't know what's worse, my desire to slap you silly or my desire to get you down to Central casting for the remake of Deliverance. Do you play Banjo?

Now I am simply going to ask you if you truly felt any shame whilst doing this. Your post seems to have a style as if you should have opened the post with:

"Dear Hustler, I never thought this would happen to me...".

Lets be honest, you wanted this to happen. You didn't care as you had the audacity to bone your cousin...and then took it home to wifey. You need to be honest with your wife, but I know you won't. You dont have any intention of it. It's written between every line of your post.

There is no coming back from this one. And I suppose since it was so Spur of the moment that you didnt think about PROTECTION???

Please find one ounce of dignity in your incestuous body and let your wife find someone who she can trust enough to be able to go to a family function without her husband screwing a family member.

Im sure that you didn't pull out in the middle of the pond either...BRAVO BILLY BOB!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (1 June 2009):

so you had sex with the cousin and then went home like a good decent hb and had sex with your wife. and now what? still thinking about your sordid encounter with your cousin? you seem to have a very liberal view having sex with a cousin but have you though about incest. sexual acts are FORBIDDEN between cousins. it's like f*cking your own mother (yes, it is a horrible image, but maybe some shock therapy will get you thinking of how wrong you and this cousin was).

there are 2 aspects here:

1. your incestuous sexual encounter .

2. your cheating on your wife. you are now an adulterer.

i actually don't know what is more shameful. by your account you don't even acknowledge cheating on your wife. so, don't you consider f*cking someone other than your wife, cheating? Darragh, what have you done? do you even care or have you always wanted to F*CK this cousin of yours. this romantic version of your indescretion is utter bull. we did not have to read your mills and boons encounter of your sordid sex session with your cousin. just say it like a man. instead of the glorified romantic setting. well, be a man and confess. but we know you would not do this . why? because you overly thoroughly indulged with this person and if the opportunity presents itself again, you will be at it again. no morals. just plain f*cking. remember this, incest is a crime. your liberal view will only delude you further. Your account of the sex only indicate that you have no regrets. Then i have nothing more to say since we are not on the same page. I just wish your wife goes out and find a real man. A man that is not morally corrupt as you have proven to be. i think your wife deserves the best in her life, don't you?

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A female reader, Anastasia Trinidad and Tobago +, writes (1 June 2009):

Anastasia agony auntHey Darragh...

That is quite a predicament. I have been thinking while I was reading your question. Your feeling was right as this is wrong. Your best bet would be to limit your communication with cousin for a bit and concentrate on your family at home.

It will be your choice if you wish to tell your wife. I am usually one for honesty, however...your family and her family could become quite enraged over something like this.

But my honest opinion would be to try to put that behind you and focus on wife

Ana

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