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female
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41-50,
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writes:i really like a guy i work with. the other day we went out as friends for a pizza and movie. he treated me so well that i got so upset and he ended up hugging me for 2 hours. im ashamed to say i really enjoyed it. i was feeling extremely low as i havent been treated well by men.anyway he has a girlfriend whos hes been with for 5 years and they just got a flat together. i feel so horrible as it was a long hug but nothing else happened and nothing else will happen not while hes with someone. i just dont want to feel bad. he says shes always out drinking with guys from work and never around. i told him i felt bad for what had happened and he said he didnt want to risk our friendship so would do whatever he could.i feel like **** for actually feeling happy for once what can i do :(
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (16 July 2012):
 I'd listen to our Honeypie if I were you. You are too vunerable around this guy if you are alone with him. Stay in a group or stay away until his status changes.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (16 July 2012):
 Then don't hang out with him one-on-one again.
If he's got problems with his girlfriend he OUGHT to discuss that with HER, not you.
Personally, I'd back away.
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