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writes: Dear Cupid,For three years I have had a relationship that was never 100% serious. However, earlier this year my partner found someone he fell for.He did not tell me anything about her until the 2 of them fell into problems. He said he could not tell me because he didn't know hot to. This hurt badly that he couldn't tell me but this did not change anything between us.Recently I lost my job and he was there to console me. He helped me to feel better most of the time but i was insecure from what had happened earlier in the year and losing my job. Because of this insecurity I invaded his privacy by going through his cell phone but he caught me. He was upset by this and says he can never trust me again. Is there anyway that I can correct what I did? I know it was wrong and I'm sorry but can I show him I'm sorry and rebuild that trust?
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reader, kellyO  +, writes (14 November 2006):
 Dearie,
Just give him time. He is obviously upset and he should be really. He might not mean what he said and with time hopefully he will understand why u did that even if it was wrong.
I can see here that you still have feelings for him. you should be careful though because i see him as being hesistant in rekindling the relationship with u. Try not to be the driver to make this relationship go back to how it was. He was the one responsible for things to turn sour by establishing himself in another relationship. He should be the one doing the repairing, not you.
Go out and have fun. dont dwell intently on this guy. if there is still a purpose for both of you it should come from him.
Goodluck dear
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