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writes:Ok...I met a dude on myspace we talked for about a week then I told him I was gay he didnt seem very surprised..he just said he already was thinking that. I asked him if he minded and he said that he didnt really care much he said he was open minded that sorta thing. So weeks turned into months...and we still were talking everyday! He started talking dirty and hinting that he wanted to try somethings blow job..u know that sorta stuff. Well I told hime yea sure whatever...but ALSO: this dude is straight/ virgin...we meet one night and I got in his car one thing led to another then when I made my move he started shaking and flippin out...I knew he was uncomfortable so I said lets just not do it...so after that he kept textin me not really talking about the little incident..then he started dating this girl...and he didnt text me for a month or so..then he text me one night he was on vacation and he as saying how much he liked talkin to me and that I made him happen when we talked...btw I never once hung out with him and his friends together...obviously ashamed of me...so I kinda started giving him th COLD SHOULDER he got all pissy and started texting me asking why we havent been talking much. So he is talking his shit again except now he wants to try further...still a virgin.lol...so I said lets meet when u get back he said ok...we didnt hangout he had plans...yea sure. So I told him not to text me anymore and all that good stuff..I told him it doesnt look good for him to be texting a gay guy anyway...so he hasnt text me for about 4 weeks now...but im in love with him...but I just wanted to know what the hell that was?? hahah It seems like it doent bother him at all not to talk to me now....Sorry so long but u need the detail to answer the question from your perspective.
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reader, Koolaid091 +, writes (20 August 2009):
Koolaid091 is verified as being by the original poster of the question We still havent talked...Im not really into him much now but I know If i start up a convo with him I will end up right back where I started from.
Thanks for the answers helped alot!! Love!!
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 August 2009): He put him self out there to have sex with you. He was mad that you didn't text for a while, so he must have some feelings for you. If I were in his shoes and that happened, and the guy told me to stop texting him any more I would stop and loose there number.Even if I cared for him, and it probably did hurt him, but he doesnt show that to you, the one that doesnt want to speak to him anymore. He's not perfect by getting a gf, not talking to you for a while, then him not meeting you. Clearly he likes you maybe even loves you.I would text him, say srry for telling him not to text anymore, but state that he did get a gf and he wasn't contacting you, and he doesn't want any of his friends to know you, or his family.
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 August 2009): I think he was confused and not sure what he wants. But he and you are not on the same page which is why he isn't bothered that you no longer talk to him. Best to just move forward.
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reader, eyeswideopen +, writes (3 August 2009):
 Forget about him, he's not interested.
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