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female
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36-40,
anonymous
writes:I went on two dates with a guy I met on a dating site 2 weeks ago (two nights in a row). We instantly hit it off and the dates were great - great chemistry, no awkwardness and he seems to be everything I am looking for in a guy :) He seemed really keen and told me how good it was to meet me etc. Well he said he was definitly keen to see me again, but the problem is he's been doing bartending everynight (he says this anyway). See, he is a real estate agent, but as the property market is kinda down at the moment, he said he has been doing bartending on the side, and says he worked for the past weeekend, as well as all of this week and weekend. I have occasionally texted him and he seems interested still - even invited me to his flat for drinks on his only night off, Sunday night (I declined as I am not ready to stay over just yet and wouldn't be able to drive home if drinking).. I don't want to keep asking him when he is free next..or if he even is really working? I feel like he should be asking that? How can I find out if he really is SO busy with work that he has no time to ask me out again, or he is just not that into me - would it be ok to ask this in some way, or should I just wait and see? By the way, he removed his profile from the dating site within a week of meeting me, so I'm thinking that's a good thing?
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reader, mizz.butterflies  +, writes (15 March 2010):
 Sounds that hes not willing to pay for any further dates thats why he said that.but he does want to sleep with you (thats why he invited u to his place).u declided thats why he stopped messaging you.
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 March 2010): Don't limit yourself so early in a relationship. It doesn't hurt to go on some other dates. If this guy likes you, he'll find you and make time for you. "I don't have time" really means "I don't want to." Either he has time or he doesn't, but why wait around on him to figure it out? He's not the only fish in the sea.
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