We love eachother but he doesn't want me to tell anyone we've said it, is something wrong?

Hi, I just told my boyfriend of 10 months that I loved him on Easter, it took em a long time to say it (seriously, 20 minutes)and in fact my bf helped me out by asking if what I wanted to tell him was that I loved him.. I said yes and then was finally able to say it... I had wanted to say it a week ago after we got back from our break with one another, but I thought maybe it wasn't a good time because it was too soon, but I have always felt loved by him and I really wanted to say it to him because I felt like my heart was exploding and I needed to express it....he told me he loved me too and I feel good..more than good about that, but he laterasked if anythign was going to change and that question kind of threw me off and I said we'll play it by ear; I really don't know...things can only change for the better... I sensed that he was feeling weird about it a little bit maybe because he never expected me to tell him or beacuse maybe it was too soon? I hope I didn't mess things up between us, but I wnat to amke surehe's okay with it... later on he said maybe we should wait before telling anyone we've said it and I foudn that weird.. I just told my mom so far.. my friends I won't tell for now.. I guess I know what he means by that, but it's more between us... he's 24 and I'm 21 and we're both adults, so what's the problem? I don't know.. am I being worried for no reason?

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