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writes: Basically my friend told me that she thinks she ready to have sex for the first time(she is 15 her bf is 18 but she is 16 in june n i think she will wait till she is 16) anyway as she is younger than me i sometimes act motherly when it comes down to tlking about sex ect but instead of being motherly and telling her that i think she should wait untill she is older i acted like a friend and just told her that she will know when she is ready n that when she does have sex that she has to make sure she's safe and careful and make sure that she wants it/is ready n that she is not just doing it to keep her bf coz even though i know the guy she is with n i know he wd not do that, he is an older guy. n i told her that if she has any questions or queeries to just come n ask me.so bassically my question is was i wrong in wot i said to her and should i have been motherly n told her she was to young n to wait n not to even start considering having sex untill she is atleast 16, or was i right in wot i said to her. Reply to this Question
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reader, chachacha  +, writes (18 April 2006):
Well you probably said the right thing, but the reason why 16 is the age of consent, is for a reason - a 15 yr old is rather too young to decide.
And you have to bear in mind that it is illegal for her bf to have sex with her when she is only 15.
Don't worry about it - at the end of the day, your advice is irrelevant, she will make her own decisions and live by them.
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