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writes:Me and my boyfriend have been together for 6 months now and we love each other very much. The only problem we have is the sex issue. It is great .... when we get time! We are both 20 and we both still live at home with our parents. This is very frustrating as we never get time to be alone and to have sex. We dont have loads of money at the moment either so neither of us can afford to keep going to hotels etc. The one time my parents are going to be out this week - i am on my period! We havent had sex for about a month now and we are both finding it very frustrating. I dont want it to end up that either of us ends up going elsewhere for it. We do love each other very much but i cant see a way around this problem. He refuses to have sex if anyone else is in the house even if we are in my bedroom or his bedroom with the doors locked?!Any advice?
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reader, DV1  +, writes (20 June 2007):
 Does he have a car? Go out to a random parking lot or a field in the middle nowhere... If you guys can do the whole flower field thing, it would be really romantic...
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reader, d4u04 +, writes (20 June 2007):
 There are only two reasons I can think of that would help this situation, 1 is your boyfriend needs to fnid someway of getting over this fear of having sex with his parents in the house, because if both of your parents know that you are in this relationship and are 20 years old, surely they cannot be naive enough to think that you don't have sex.
Number 2 is maybe getting your own place, not neccesarily together but just somewhere you can be alone and not, whether you mean to be or not, restricted by your parents. I don't really have this problem as I am at university so therefore living away from home, but when I did live with my parents I was in the same position, scared of them maybe hearing me have sex and so on. This only really changed when I moved out, obviously it's not as easy as saying "I'll get my own place" because houses and flats are expensive these days but you are obviously stuck in a rut with a need to spread your wings, so to speak.
Hope this helps x
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