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female
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51-59,
anonymous
writes:hi i have a very unique and difficult question,i am married and i have a boyfriend. he is divorced after being married for 29 years. i have been with him for 2 years and he still wont introduce me to his mother. i am always with him except when im with my daughter. my husband and i live as roomates thats all, i stay because my daughter is 12 and my husband is sick physically. my boyfriend knows all this and he and my husband have met several times, he even comes over, but he still will nt introduce me to his mother. and that hurts i love him very much and dont know what to do please help,thanx
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reader, Angzw  +, writes (19 February 2010):
It sounds like he has already bent over backwards to accomodate you. Perhaps he has to draw the line somewhere? Afterall, if he was to introduce you to his mother, he would introduce you as what exactly? And ofcourse she would be curious about you and your background, your kids etc... What would you tell her about your husband?
You need to start sorting out your life; if you and your husband are never going to reconcile then you need to divorce; at least on paper. Your daughter is not learning anything; I can't imagine what the kids at school would taunt her with if they ever found out this situation.
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reader, Dr hani  +, writes (19 February 2010):
You must leave him.You have a husband&daughter
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reader, Aunty BimBim  +, writes (19 February 2010):
 His mother might not be impressed with him having a girlfriend who is already married. If he is in the same age group as you his mother could quite possibly be of the era that believed in the vows of marriage, forsaking all others, etc etc.
Maybe he is ashamed of having an affair with a married woman. Why dont you try asking him why he wont introduce you to his mother.
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