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Does he like me and what shall I do about my friends?

Q.   Two weeks ago I met this guy, B. It was a friend-of-a-friend chance meeting, and we hit it off really quickly. He is so kind and sweet and talented (I should stop now or I'll be here all night!) I have never felt this strongly about anyone before ...

A.   23 September 2007: He obiously likes you more than your m8s and im sure they will undertsand...give it ago girl... (read in full...)

My ex keeps coming into my work. What does he want???

Q.   EX HELP WANTED..... Ok story is my ex and i broke up 7 months ago, he did the breaking but secretly i was releived even though it hurt. We stayed in contact and we still get on so well, flirting and and he buys me things and makes me cds and thing...

A.   26 August 2007: Hes goin mental! Just gentely push him away when he tries to touch you and if he keeps doing it it might seem a bit hersh but shout at him to let him know your being serious.... (read in full...)

Has my fiance cheated?

Q.   Has my fiance cheated? My partner works away a lot and I recently found out that while he was away he went to a strip club and didn't tell me. When I found out he denied it at first but then admitted to me that he did go and all of a sudden came ...

A.   22 August 2007: Right...he either has or he just just doent want to swear on his daughters life cause he loves her dont worry... (read in full...)

Help me! I want to have sex with my own sister

Q.   hello i need advise i am 16 years old and i want to have sex with my sister she is realy attractive i dont know wat to do plz help...

A.   21 August 2007: Dont listen to them. Its not illegal! However turn ur eyes on to anuther girl(find one)that is prettier than ur sister so that ull then think that shes not so attractive.... (read in full...)

Should we break up before Uni? He wants to get serious and eventually married!

Q.   I've had a boyfriend for nearly 2 and a half years, we're both off to uni this october.. the problem is he wants to stay together, get serious and evetually get married. I want to have a break and have informed him of this.. I am only 18 and have so ...

A.   21 August 2007: No i dont think theres any reason to get serious just yet. Explore all the different guys and then ull knoew the ont you really want.You need space.... (read in full...)

How can I trust my fiancee when she said she loved someone else?

Q.   my fiancee admitted that she loved another guy, but now feels that it was a mistake. can i trust her and in forward with her?...

A.   21 August 2007: Yes im sure it was justs a crush and if it wasnt she soon noticed that she loved you and snapped out of it. Give her anuther chance.... (read in full...)

My wife is bi and wants to explore women. I am ok with that, but have some fears.

Q.   Hell All, I am a 28yr old Male from Michigan, I shall call myself "Travis". I recently have gotton married to "Anne" she is 26. Before we married she stated that she is BI-Curious and would like to explore her curiosity. Well after being marr...

A.   21 August 2007: It doesnt deem right even if she is a bi shes married to YOU and shoulnt go off with other women or men.Being bi is still no ecseption shes suppost to love you and thats like having an affair with someone.Its not right tell heryou dont feel ... (read in full...)

What exactly is a woman supposed to do during sex?

Q.   I know guys go off the verbal queues during sex to please the woman but what am I supposed to do to make it pleasurable for him? Laying down and just enjoying it seems to be a tad selfish. Shouldn't I be doing something too? I understand about or...

A.   18 August 2007: If the girls leading than shell make it good for her and it just happens to feel good to you. And if your leading than it will mporob feel good to her anyway dont worry... (read in full...)

He did not sign my autograph book.

Q.   hey, i like this guy that use to be in my class in Year 6, i don't know if he likes me or not, at the end of year6 i made every1 in my class sign my autograph book and he never he refused to sign it, he even use to act normal with me, he smiled at ...

A.   18 August 2007: I think he likes you but feels enbaressed to show it in front of his m8s. Dont worry about it its obvious he likes you.Go for it girl... (read in full...)

He popped the question after five days.

Q.   Hey Guys I have a question okay here it is. I have been with this guy named Sam for about 5 days he popped the question over the phone last night and we are 2 years difference in age he is 17 and i am 15 he lives in seatle i am in texas and we plan ...

A.   18 August 2007: I think you age is tyo young and he sounds like a freak. For the moment you can get on with your life and have fun without worrying thatb hell get to hurt when your not free youll miss it.Doint do it ... (read in full...)

Do women find men masterbating a turn off?

Q.   I was wonderin if women find a guy masterbating a turn-off and how much times a day is too much? any help is appreciated...

A.   18 August 2007: Turn on definately but i think more than bout 3 times a day would freak certain ppl out. ... (read in full...)

We are 13, and my girlfriend has asked if i would like oral, what do you think?

Q.   my girlfriend and i have been together for 8 months already. she is now asking me if i want a blowjob. we are 13. what do we do?...

A.   18 August 2007: It really depends on how you feel. If you feel ready then go for it but if you feel a little bit unsure than dont do it its seem,s to me obvious that shes going a bit to quick for you so my advice id not yet. 13 des seems young for sexual stuff so... (read in full...)

We are 13, and my girlfriend has asked if i would like oral, what do you think?

Q.   my girlfriend and i have been together for 8 months already. she is now asking me if i want a blowjob. we are 13. what do we do?...

A.   18 August 2007: It really depends on how you feel. If you feel ready then go for it but if you feel a little bit unsure than dont do it its seems to me obvious that shes going a bit to quick for you so my advice id not yet. 13 does seems young for sexual stuff so... (read in full...)

We had our first kiss, but I think I messed up

Q.   I am 14 years old and my girlfriend is 13..Well my girlfriend and I been going out for about 2 and 9 days. She very smart and basicly living life. But like I dont really see her as much because she goes to a private school and I only just in a ...

A.   18 August 2007: Maybe you should sugest to meet her parents because although she seems to act like her parents are strict if you meet then and they like you than she would feel more comfortable being with you and wont feel so guilty. After all its better for you ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend of 5 years has been calling chat lines!

Q.   My boyfriend of 5 years has been calling chat lines. I have been with my boyfriend for 5 years. We have lived together for 4. A few years ago we broke up as he felt he needed to try other women and just be free from relationships. I found out a fe...

A.   14 August 2007: Hes basicly a perve tell him to stop!! If he wasnt your bf i would say just leave him be but this is rediculous. Is objious that he doesnt love you that much if he needs to use chat up lines as well as you! You might not want to hear tit hunni bu... (read in full...)

I haven't had my period in 3-5 months and I haven't been sexually active! What could be wrong?

Q.   Hi plz can u help me i am really scared my period hasn't started 4 nearly 3-5 months now and i haven't done anythin if u know wot i mean,and is this normal plz plz can u help me out thanx ...

A.   13 August 2007: Dont worry i was 11 when i satrted mine too and you wont be regular yet. As like you i was very worried when i was a week late and once i was even a month late!!Huney dont worry its completely natural.As time goes on you will become more regu... (read in full...)

She (13) thinks that he (23, Internet guy) is in love with her... how can I open her eyes!?

Q.   One of my friends (13 y/o girl) is convinced that a 23 year old man she met over an online game is in love with her. I have done everything I can to try and convince her that this is not right. We live in different countries, and they live in ...

A.   4 August 2007: If he was younger than would say that you should leave her alone but i the circumstances the only thing you can do is tell her maybe youve seen a story on tv about it. Ive had a boyfriend over the net before but he 14 a lot younger than hurs. It... (read in full...)

I ejaculate when I masturbate but I don't think I orgasm, what should I do?

Q.   I am 16 years old and I think that I have never had an orgasm. When I do masterbate I ejculate with no problems. I dont know if it is because I am gay. I have even had sexual experiences with women and dont think that I orgasm. What should I do?...

A.   4 August 2007: You dont have to have an organsm every time yuou have sex or masturbate. Dont worry about it when your really having fun thats when it all starts. Some people dont even have an organsm in their whole life! But most people do you might of had one ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants sex every day and I don't; how do I deal with this?

Q.   hey i need help....my boyfriend of a year and 3 months and who i deeply love with everything in my body has a little problem...he is well, oversexed. everytime we are together all he keeps asking me for is sex...dont get me wrong i do want sex but ...

A.   4 August 2007: Dont take this personally but your not legally aloud to have sex untill your 16. Anyway...Simply tell him you dont want to comprimise maybe once every to days. Just tell him you dont want to if you dont,he`ll understand. However if he doessnt list... (read in full...)

My girfriend is travelling away from me and keeps telling me about men hitting on her; what's her purpose with that?

Q.   My girlfriend is out of my state for 6 weeks and will be traveling heavily for a year or more. Only one week into this new job and she is going to bars most nights and telling me about all of the men hiting on her. What is she trying to ...

A.   4 August 2007: Maybe she wants you to treat her if shes entherzizing that shes maybe good loooking and rememding you thats no matter how many guys hit on her your relationship is strong enough to keep up with it. Over all i think i may just be a sighn that shes ... (read in full...)

He will make my life hell if I break up with him!

Q.   Hi Everyone, was wondering if someone could help me as i don't know what to do. Been with my bf for about 7 months, he became controlling and possessive to which we/he is/are getting help for. Over the weekend we had a really big argument which i...

A.   26 June 2007: Break up with then and if he keeps harassing you than tell the police.Seroiusly. Your entitle to the life you want and he shouldnt ruin that for you so dump him but call the police if he causes any emotional or physical damage.... (read in full...)

I am jealous of how happy my ex and my friend are together!

Q.   hiya. I recently decided to end it with my bf but now he is going out with a close friend of mine. I am finding it really hard to see them together. We are in the same group of friends which makes it even more difficult. Whenever i think about them ...

A.   26 June 2007: It is normal to feel upset. Its a bit like that with my bf cause hes over the net i will never know if hes goin out with someone else! If your friends a real friend you should be able to talk to her and tell her not to say things that might remei... (read in full...)

We agreed to try for a baby--now he wants me to get rid of it!

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been together for 5 years we are also living together. We both agreed to try for a baby--then last week when I found out I was pregnant I told him and he was so disappointed and told me to get rid of it. I was so confused...

A.   24 June 2007: If you want your baby then have it. he said hed try for one and he did so you have the right to keep it whether he likes it or not. It really depends on what kind of person you are. 1.U can bring your baby up in a world with no dad later to him... (read in full...)

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