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We had an argument about porn and lack of sex

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Question - (8 October 2018) 5 Answers - (Newest, 12 October 2018)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, anonymous writes:

H,

me and my partner had a argument last week about him watching porn and not having sex with me.

we’ve been together for 4 years I’m always catching him watching porn but he makes no effort at all to have sex with me. he says he doesn’t have a sex drive and never has.

we are both 31, he has always been a cold person never any affection or love from him but since last week we had that argument he hasn’t given me a kiss at all before going to work or before I go to work or before bed. he also hasn’t mentioned anything about our argument either.

I’ve never been able to talk to him as he just walks out.

any advice on what to do?

thank you

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (12 October 2018):

1st off 99% of men kiss their partner goodbye in the morning regardless if they are asleep or not (clue 1)

Mid life crises is that sex gets boring after the new wears off ( clue 2)

They I’m thinking he watching porn and not you means he has a fantasy and wants to explode in the idea bouncing in his head . Talk to him . And if they is a problem seeking professional help is your best bet.

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A male reader, mis_2017 South Africa +, writes (9 October 2018):

Hi there, sadly I have to agree and say its time to move on. He should be all over you and if he isn't and choosing porn over you then he don't deserve you. He can stick to his ways.

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A male reader, WiseOwlE United States + , writes (8 October 2018):

You gave several reasons why you should breakup with the guy. You can't force someone to have sex, if they don't want it.

On top of that, you claim you never get love or affection from him.

What good are arguments? If he prefers porn over you, and doesn't love you; then that's good reason to dump him!

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (8 October 2018):

I know thank you that was a few days ago I didn’t think it was going to be published so I asked again

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A female reader, Honeypie United States + , writes (8 October 2018):

Honeypie agony auntYou already asked this question...

http://www.dearcupid.org/question/he-watches-porn-but-wont-have-sex-with.html

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