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writes:I recently went on a date with this guy, and we had an amazing time, we went for dinner, a walk and then a drive. We were out for 4 hours so I thought we'd see each other again, but he hasn't text me and it's been 3 days. Is he interested?
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): He's a little too old for you, but that's besides the point. 3 days is not a long time in guy-land, though it is for a girl who is waiting for him to call. When I was first dating my now wife, I'd call on Thursday for Friday and/or Sat., when she actually wanted me to call say on Tuesday, particularly after the first time we were together intimately. I was a clueless, regular guy. But not for being so darn good looking and rich, I think she would have dumped me!
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionim 17, so im perfectly llegal, except for drinking, but i dont see why that would be an issue?he knew how old i was from the start, so if he had problems with it surly he wouldnt have asked me out in the first place?i just need to know if hes interested or not. cz not knowing is driving me mad:(thankyou for all your help everyone :)
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reader, anonymous, writes (22 March 2009): your msg let's him know u r interested in him. IF he's interested in u he WILL contact u. if not there are plenty of guys out there. good luck though. btw some guys have 3 day rules & some 7 days so don't assume it"s over.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): HE IS NOT INTERESTED, if he was he would call, text or email. It doesn't take a minute to text to call so the busy thing is no excuse.
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reader, sometimes ( Iwish)  +, writes (21 March 2009):
 Hey, by the way three days later doesn't say anything. Maybe try ringing him for a casual talk, or find something to do together where the date factor is lightened. Try a sporting event, or a social evironment where you have neutral ground... Just a thought. But have pateinceRegards,
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reader, sometimes ( Iwish) +, writes (21 March 2009):
Have pateince here, take a great date for what it is "a great date." Let things come naturally, you will find what you want. Have fun; enjoy good things. If he is interested he will let you know by his actions... Have pateince please.Regards
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionso basically he doesnt wanna see me again?
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reader, Moviefan  +, writes (21 March 2009):
 Its still possible that he is as q said, even at 21 a lot of guys are still very much man whores to many women and interests and hop from interest to interest, woman to woman without second thought. So try what you will , see what happens.Hope it works out!
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reader, Moviefan +, writes (21 March 2009):
Not always true q1605, but most of the time yes. How old is he, is he 16,17, 18???
I was never this way but a lot of guys are, so odds are q is right or you scared him away.
Try to get hold of him, and if he seems to be avoiding you he is either been scared off or has lost interest.
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reader, anonymous, writes (21 March 2009): This is verified as being by the original poster of the questionwell i text him today just saying how r u? had fun, wanna do it again?
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but he is 21 and works so i spose he's busy
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