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I was raped by my brothers best friend

Q.   i need help I'm 12 i was raped by my brothers best friend now I'm pregnant please any advice ...

A.   23 March 2009: I am sure that you're very unsure, and scared right now, but everything will be ok. Just focus, and talk to someone you can trust to give the proper guidence for this situation. Ideally, this should be your folks as they will find out eventual... (read in full...)

I'm worried that I had sex too early

Q.   I had sex with my bf for the first time last week and I'm worried that it happened too early. It was my first time but not his. It was left totally up to me by him, I was not at all pressured into it and I really wanted it to be him, but I get the ...

A.   22 March 2009: No way, don't feel guity about sharing with someone you really like. If you like the chemistry you both have when your together, it's good. Life has many experiences to be had. You have to try things out, and on. Don't be afraid just be your... (read in full...)

Pencil dick worries

Q.   I need some advice. I am a 23 year-old male, who has never been sexually active due to insecurities. I felt up until recently ready to become sexually active. (Not casual, hook-up sex but sex within a trusted, committed relationship of sorts.) ...

A.   22 March 2009: Listen up dude, Confidence is your biggest erection. Work with what you have, Smile and give truely who you are to people. Get educated, get involved. Explore your needs, and the needs of the person you're involved with. It cuts out the dra... (read in full...)

We have even been thru counseling and he lied to the Dr. What else can I try?

Q.   i need help i have been with my husband for 10 yeasr and married for 6 we have 4 boys together and it just seems like we are not ment to be in a relationship it seems as if te only thing we have in commom are our children and sex at times other ...

A.   22 March 2009: Your Marriage is on the brinks by what you have said here! Remember this, you have four children. What is being taught to them. Is it better for them, and you to be away from your husband's current attitude towards life? Set aside everything... (read in full...)

I thought these people were my friends but why would they do that ?

Q.   My wife and I got married over christmas. A few weeks ago I went out of state to celebrate my best friends birthday I messed around with another girl. I told my fiend and she was vey upset but choose to forgive me. Friday night my wife and I we...

A.   22 March 2009: You cheated on the person you just married and are having a child with; and the problem you see right now is your social friends acosting you in public!. Bud, it is time to man up on your life. Do this soon before the reward is too to dull to want. ... (read in full...)

Shaving pubic area and itchy!

Q.   my girlfriend wanted me to shave my pubic hair off so i have and it itches down there now so have any of you got any tips please...

A.   21 March 2009: Listen up bud, After you buzz off the pubes' exfoliate the area very lightly with a moisturizing body wash such as Aveeno. This helps with the irritation of regrowth. As well, after bathing try to pat dry the area do not scrub dry, then apply ... (read in full...)

We had an amazing date but it's been 3 days and he still hasn't called...

Q.   I recently went on a date with this guy, and we had an amazing time, we went for dinner, a walk and then a drive. We were out for 4 hours so I thought we'd see each other again, but he hasn't text me and it's been 3 days. Is he interested? ...

A.   21 March 2009: Hey, by the way three days later doesn't say anything. Maybe try ringing him for a casual talk, or find something to do together where the date factor is lightened. Try a sporting event, or a social evironment where you have neutral ground... Just a ... (read in full...)

We had an amazing date but it's been 3 days and he still hasn't called...

Q.   I recently went on a date with this guy, and we had an amazing time, we went for dinner, a walk and then a drive. We were out for 4 hours so I thought we'd see each other again, but he hasn't text me and it's been 3 days. Is he interested? ...

A.   21 March 2009: Have pateince here, take a great date for what it is "a great date." Let things come naturally, you will find what you want. Have fun; enjoy good things. If he is interested he will let you know by his actions... Have pateince please. Regards... (read in full...)

Why do I always feel empty without a man?

Q.   Hey all. Since the age of 15 I've always always had a boyfriend. I've only ever split up with one if there's another one that I like waiting, as I feel panicky when I'm single. Sometimes I get hurt, but as I'm fairly nice looking (I know how that ...

A.   21 March 2009: I would like to suggest something here! This doesn't have to be advice or anything. But I see an opportunity to open up in life, and discover who you really are becoming. This might be a chance to let go of any preconception you have delevope... (read in full...)

Is he just craving some attention? Or am I crazy for staying with him?

Q.   I have been with my fiance for 11yrs, and I really love him. I am pretty sure that he still loves me too. I have some apprehensions about the future of our relationship. About a year ago, I found out that he was chatting with a woman in the UK. I ...

A.   20 March 2009: Do whats right for you., Eleven years of being with someone says quite a bit. I should have to spell it out here. Honestly, when someone contemplates cheating it is a form of unhappiness. Most men, on average cheat on their others to get out of a ... (read in full...)

Small penis confusion... need guidance asap

Q.   okay, so im embarassed to tell my friend so im trusting this website will help me out, im gonna get straight to the question. ive had sex with 2 guys, im guessing both of them were 2-3 inches long erect. after about 5 min of having sex i lite...

A.   20 March 2009: THis is not a "bad luck" thing here it's called life experience. I would ask yourself Why you had sex with these dudes? What did you expect?, and What is really important durning sex? You don't need to sweat it, you will find the right groove, an... (read in full...)

How can I make areas of my body lighter?

Q.   Im 26 years old and im still a virgin. The problem i can't go out with a guy is....im very fair in colour but my buds and my vagine is dark in colour which makes me shy to have sex with anyone. I also have dark spots on my bud. How can i make my ...

A.   20 March 2009: You are a unique person, as we all are. Set aside your insecurity about your physical appearence. Try to step out of the cell that holds these feelings. If you feel weird it's ok. We are all weirdos thats what make us all unique in life. Just a ... (read in full...)

Husband seems unattracted to me only after 1 1/2 years of marriage. :(

Q.   I need help with my marriage. I've only been married for 1 1/2 years and I feel like my marriage is already getting stale. My biggest problem is my insecurity with my body. I've always had high self esteem until I got married. My husband LOVES big ...

A.   20 March 2009: Hi there, I thought that I respond again to this, So I hope I'm not being inconsiderate here. Some people have quite an adjustment period in the transition between dating to marriage. It actually sound like you are giving too much away. What I mean ... (read in full...)

Husband seems unattracted to me only after 1 1/2 years of marriage. :(

Q.   I need help with my marriage. I've only been married for 1 1/2 years and I feel like my marriage is already getting stale. My biggest problem is my insecurity with my body. I've always had high self esteem until I got married. My husband LOVES big ...

A.   19 March 2009: Here is some sound advice if you really want it! You need to take control first of your biggest problem being " my insecurity with my body". This really isn't about big breasts. This might be about and I will quote " I've tried over and over ag... (read in full...)

I need help to stop being so insecure and crazy. Why am I so off balance?

Q.   I have had quite a few relationships but never found the one. I am an attractive, intelligent and successful, with men constantly wanting to be in a serious relationship with me. Finally I have met a guy and have fallen in love with him and he ...

A.   19 March 2009: Your answers to this is in your question! "I have had quite a few relationships but never found the one. I am an attractive, intelligent and successful, with men constantly wanting to be in a serious relationship with me. Finally I have met a gu... (read in full...)

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