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We had a one time passionate kiss. If I see him again should I pursue him or forget it?

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Question - (12 December 2007) 1 Answers - (Newest, 13 December 2007)
A female United Kingdom age 30-35, *ittleMissSunshine writes:

About a week and a half ago I was at a conference, followed by a pretty posh dinner followed with a pretty good afterparty. All the way through the conference, I kept making eye contact with a guy, we'll call him James. Kept catching him looking at me, lots of flirty looks, dirty grins, then after the dinner we were both at the after party. Things got pretty wild at the party, lots of alcohol consumed by ltos fo people. I wasn't drunk, but I was defo quite tipsy. He was just a little bit tipsy though. At one point during the after party him and I both ended up in the basement. Forget how it happened, but basically I think I was heading there so as to use the stairs which started in thebasement and I think he was diong the same. Anyways it was dark and we were alone and basically all the flirting from before just exploded. There was just so much chemistry, nothnig got said, we just sort of fell in to eachothers arms. We had the most amazing kiss ever and I've never felt so much pleasure before. We were really getting in to it when one of the other dinner guests came down and caught us. Luckily the guy who caught us was a mutual friend of us both and so it was ok, but he told us people had noticed we were both missing, so we knew we had to stop.

One week and a half on, and I can't stop thinking about him. He quite literally took my breath away. He had the most amazing body and lips and he had a wicked sense of humour. I was talking to the mutual friend who caught us kissing about him, and he said he was "quite popular with the ladies", but that he thought him and i seemed well matched. Apparently we both like the same things.

I'll be back up in the same place in a fortnights time, and theres a huge chance I am going to run in to james again. Do you think it was just a one night stand type thing and I should just leave it, or do you think it was something more and I should maybe pursue it?

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A male reader, enjoimx United States +, writes (13 December 2007):

enjoimx agony auntSounds like a scene from a movie!

In the movies, at this point, the lady, You, would probably play a bit hard to get next time you see him, but still flirtatious in your smart, wicked way. That way, the passion will be just as intense next time. If he ignores you, he's too scared and isnt worth it.

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