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Interpreting texts when getting to know each other!

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Question - (20 September 2009) 2 Answers - (Newest, 20 September 2009)
A female United Kingdom age 51-59, anonymous writes:

I know one shouldn't analyse texts too much but would love to hear anyones thoughts!!!

Met a guy recently and have actually posted other questions on him - it started out as bed mates and I said no to that - so now we are just getting to know each other to see what may happen.

Anyway I was at a party last night and he was somewhere else in a bar just as drunk.... We were texting each other and I happen to mention that there was this guy who just wouldn't leave me alone(very creepy drunk guy that stared at my assets all night!!!) So one of his texts said

'Tell him I'm your lover...and I won't appreciate it if he does not respect you....be safe....please'

Another text said -

'Take care - any probs let me know....call me ....I'm here 4 u..

Another text said -

'Be safe....I'll kill him if he f*#ks with u....one heart and soul.....'

What did he mean - one heart and soul???? I maybe reading far too much into it (thats the hell of being me sometimes - too much thinking!!!!)Are these texts of just friendly concern or is he turning a corner on how he views our relationship????Is he starting to see me more than a f$*k buddy???

HELP!!!!

All thoughts welcome!!

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009):

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Thank you oldersister - I guess I am always reading between the lines. Would like to be his girlfriend but also understand that takes time - it's not something that will happen overnight as we are still getting to know each other.

Yep - all options are being kept open :-)

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A reader, anonymous, writes (20 September 2009):

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Thank you oldersister - but thats the thing, I am not his girlfriend. We both had previous birtday events to attend to last night that had been in our diaries previously. We did want to see each other but there was no way we both could have got out of our commitments.....

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