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anonymous
writes:i have a verrrry big and verrrry secret crush on this guy. the weird thing is - we've already been on a few dates and had great sex so there isn't really a reason it should be so secret! i still even have problems being able to pluck up the courage to send him a short text message, and i'm definitely too shy to call him (i wait for him to call)! this is all due to having absolutely no clue about how he feels towards me... he never seems to show any sign of anything!!!! .. how do i get him to tell me/show me how he really feels?
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reader, mitch  +, writes (24 March 2007):
I know you say your too shy to, but just call him! He might appriciate it, he might be slightly confussed as to how you feel since your having problems phoning and texting him, he might see that as you not liking him! And as Livi said... he must like you to have had sex with you! Everyone at times just needs to take a bold step and do something... how hard could one phone call be after you've already been dating together??
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007): maybe when you are both alone together and generally talking try to get onto the subject of friendship and how good friends you are, as you get further into the convo try to slightly bring it on to dating/realationships. You could ask him if he's ever liked anyone as more than jst a friend eventually he will give you signs either way or as you get deeper into the convo it'll make you feel more comfortable around him and maybe even enough to tell him how you feel.
good luck
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reader, livi +, writes (24 March 2007):
 hey there,
I deffinatly think he likes you. why else would he call you or date you or have sex with you if he didnt like you.
Perhapse get a friend to ask if he likes you.
you need to know other wise you are just wasting your time. You deserve to know what is going on.
Good luk : D
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