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We dated, we had sex-but I still find it hard to text him! How do I get him to tell me how he really feels?

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Question - (24 March 2007) 2 Answers - (Newest, 24 March 2007)
A female United States age 36-40, anonymous writes:

i have a verrrry big and verrrry secret crush on this guy. the weird thing is - we've already been on a few dates and had great sex so there isn't really a reason it should be so secret! i still even have problems being able to pluck up the courage to send him a short text message, and i'm definitely too shy to call him (i wait for him to call)! this is all due to having absolutely no clue about how he feels towards me... he never seems to show any sign of anything!!!! .. how do i get him to tell me/show me how he really feels?

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (24 March 2007):

maybe when you are both alone together and generally talking try to get onto the subject of friendship and how good friends you are, as you get further into the convo try to slightly bring it on to dating/realationships. You could ask him if he's ever liked anyone as more than jst a friend eventually he will give you signs either way or as you get deeper into the convo it'll make you feel more comfortable around him and maybe even enough to tell him how you feel.

good luck

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A female reader, livi United Kingdom +, writes (24 March 2007):

livi agony aunthey there,

I deffinatly think he likes you. why else would he call you or date you or have sex with you if he didnt like you.

Perhapse get a friend to ask if he likes you.

you need to know other wise you are just wasting your time. You deserve to know what is going on.

Good luk : D

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