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writes: Such a mess...we'd been going out for almost a year, went through a couple of rocky periods (including an abortion), and then a couple of months ago I broke up with her because it felt she was just not into it anymore (which she eventually admitted was true). however, i decided i regretted my decision, and it turned out that i was the only one suffering, and still am. since then, we've developed into friends w/*some* benefits, but im having a hard time accepting her as something else than what she was to me, and its starting to take a toll on my life in terms of depression and whatnot. i feel like i can never get over her if i go on like this, but then again this seems unfair to deny her my friendship because of all we've been through. either way im miserable. any advice would be appreciated!
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reader, blackcoffee +, writes (2 November 2006):
leave the benefits out of the friendship. simple. or just cool off for 3 months with no contact while allowing each other to move on.
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