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Bf told me I need to be tighter! I heard somethin about vineger.. but how?

Q.   Me and my boyfriend have been having sex and he has told me that im not tight at all.. Is there anyway to make it tighter for my boyfriend? I heard somethin about vineger.. but how? please help mee!!!...

A.   10 November 2006: Tell him maybe he needs to seek help to get bigger. He is such a selfish man!... (read in full...)

I have fallen for my ex bf's brother! Should I pursue this or is this just too crazy to keep thinking about?

Q.   I have some emotional baggage that I'm not sure how to deal with, and I hope people here can help me. Almost two years ago, I broke up a serious relationship with a man who was also my best friend. I had my reasons and though I struggled with it ...

A.   10 November 2006: I think deep down inside you still want your ex. Why else do you unsist on being in his circle and dating in it. Getting with his brother is a way of keeping contact with him. Don't do it. Many have taken that route and regretted it. Find a man ... (read in full...)

Can't get over my 'sex buddy'! Can anyone help me?

Q.   I posted a question a while ago about my 'sex buddy' dumping me. So yeah he treated me like crap he never returned my calls, never called me I always had to call him and when I did call 3/4 of the time he wouldn't pick up, he would never answer my ...

A.   9 November 2006: Hard but true. Once you affer your services to a man as a sex buddy or shag friend, he will never view you as a relationship potential. Men are funny that way. I hope your current boyfriend is not a sex buddy and do not tell him about the other ... (read in full...)

We broke up, became friends with benefits, but she still means more to me than that! Help!!

Q.   Such a mess...we'd been going out for almost a year, went through a couple of rocky periods (including an abortion), and then a couple of months ago I broke up with her because it felt she was just not into it anymore (which she eventually admitted ...

A.   2 November 2006: leave the benefits out of the friendship. simple. or just cool off for 3 months with no contact while allowing each other to move on.... (read in full...)

My married lover said his wife and him don't connect...she gave birth today!! I had no idea she was even pregnant. What should I do?

Q.   Hi, I need help.. I fell in love with my married boss.. i know its stupid.. but i did..this was over 2 years ago.. both of us had moved into a new city and were working in the same organization. His family (wife and kid) were in another city and...

A.   1 November 2006: How many times should women be burned before they learn that a married man belongs to his wife. He will say anything to get an easy lay but he is still not yours. If he does not 'connect' with her he should get a divorce. And you missy have ... (read in full...)

He talks to his friend A LOT...is there something wrong here?

Q.   Hello, i'm writing a long long message, but plz do take some time out and read it.I, especially need to know guys' response to it.i'm really confused and in need of some suggestions. I'm 23,married for almost a year. My husband is 31 yrs old. we b...

A.   1 November 2006: I think you know the answer and you just want it in print. He is Gay! I had a boyfriend for a year. Had sex Three times (all 2 minutes of it). He had his best friend. They would always meet at my house coz they claimed their parents did not ... (read in full...)

I get sick to my stomach when I don't talk to him! How do I gain control of this?

Q.   Im with this lovely guy He is so great the only thing is we are long distance at the min, although this will change soon. I am kinda new to the whole relationship thing and I think my guy has picked on this. He always offers me reasuranse when ...

A.   1 November 2006: Gosh, You sound like me 6 months ago! I had to move 2hrs away and it was hell. I felt just like you. If he did not call, text or pick up his phone I would have a vivid mental picture of what he may be up to. It's normal. However it will all be ... (read in full...)

He stayed at her house and his excuses were pretty weak. What's he really up to..any advice?

Q.   Need advice. Don't know if I am being cheated on, or if I am just in denial of the whole situation. My man and I have been together for over 3 years. We got pregnant early on in the relationship and unfortunately our daughter was stillborn at 36 ...

A.   11 October 2006: Trust your gut feeling on this one. There have been too many coincidences for my liking. You should have kicked up a big stink at the start and nipped it in the bud. They realised they could fool you. What are you doing with a no good man ... (read in full...)

He spends time with his ex and round her mom's house!

Q.   My boyfriend and I have been been together for a year now. But when we first started seeing eachother, he was in a relationship with another woman. He stopped seeing her so that he could be with me. Everything was going good, or so i thought, a ...

A.   11 October 2006: Sorry to come hard on you but check his record girl! He left her for you. That means he is the 'stealable' kind. What makes you so sure noone will steal him from you. This girl was hurt by you and whether she really wants him back or not, she ... (read in full...)

My husband cheats and I am in love with another man (who has a gf) So how do I know my other man is really interested?

Q.   I am married. My husband has been cheating on me for years. He is a great provider, however, the women that he is involved with over time do not give me no respect. This has bee going on for 17 plus years that we have been married. I have fallen ...

A.   27 July 2006: Be careful girl, karma will come round and bite your ass! You know how you felt hurt and useless when your man was cheating. Why then are you putting another woman through this. Dump both guys and find someone for YOU and only you. Do not be ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants me to sleep with his friend

Q.   I'm 18 and have been dating my 21 year old boyfriend for 6 months. He's a virgin, and surprisingly, doesn't want sex at all but suggested to me that I should sleep with his friend instead. I'm not a virgin; I've had sex once with my only other bo...

A.   25 May 2006: Sex does not make a relationship but at some future point you will be very frustrated then cheat or start calling him names. If he says he has sex problems, get him to find help. If he does not want to, then leave before wasting your time. you ... (read in full...)

A girl is saying she did stuff with my boyfriend, what should I do?

Q.   please help me i dont no if my boy freind has cheated on me the girl is going round saying she has done somthink with him and i realy dont wana lose him ????...

A.   25 May 2006: I went through that recently. Your boyfriend will deny it, she will insist it's true. The best thing to do is ask yourself in what spirit she is doing this. Does she want to break you up so she can have him? Has she always been there flirting with ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend wants me to sleep with his friend

Q.   I'm 18 and have been dating my 21 year old boyfriend for 6 months. He's a virgin, and surprisingly, doesn't want sex at all but suggested to me that I should sleep with his friend instead. I'm not a virgin; I've had sex once with my only other bo...

A.   25 May 2006: Just reading your letter the first thing that crossed my mind was 'is he gay'? Anyhow, If he really cared about you he would never want anyone, let alone his friend, near you. He is too inexperience to be curious about threesome and stuff li... (read in full...)

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