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writes:i am so confused. i was txting wat i thought was an honest decent man for th last six months. he would txt me ever spre moment he had every morning day and nite without fail. i felt something forhim and was re he felt it too. he coudnt wait to meet me and was forever telling me how he wanted t be with me etc... on saturday he wanted tomee but couldnt due to work so we made arrangements for this sat instead. he went ot sat nte i said have great nie he said thank luv and that was i i havent heard from hm since. he madeall the arrangements for us to meet this week. not even a txt to say he didnt wnt to meet jus total silence. i fel hurt foolish and ttally confused . six months then nothing. should i try get to botto of it or just let it go? i have deleted all his messages photos and ph number. feel so syupid for believing things he said to me. HELP Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): I agree with everyone. It is easy to text empty words and promises. Texting is easy and he probably liked the attention. I would not contact him and delete him so he cannot contact you..sorry
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reader, anonymous, writes (3 February 2010): Wait, I am confused too. You said you made arrangements to meet this Saturday, the 6th of February then? And you haven't met him before? And you last heard from him 4 days ago? Whats the problem? Maybe he lost his phone, I still think thats a little early to start deleting all his texts and phone number and all. You should show up on Saturday at least and hear his explanation.
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reader, sarcy24  +, writes (3 February 2010):
 Let it go. He just isn't worth it. If he can't be bothered to reply or send you any texts at all since meeting you then he certainly isn't worth even bothering with.
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reader, bharat mehta  +, writes (3 February 2010):
 He is not aware of his own doing, which means he is foolish. It is better to live alone, then to relate with such personality.
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reader, veronika  +, writes (3 February 2010):
 If you've already deleted his phone number, then it seems you've already made up your mind.
If he can't make the effort early on, he won't make the effort later in the relationship. Just let it go.
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reader, CaringGuy +, writes (3 February 2010):
I think you'd do better to let it go.
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