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writes:I am still a virgin at the age of 20 which I want to change. The reason is because I was with a guy from the age of 16 until recently, and he had erection problems. In short we had a complex relationship which was not really normal. I have recently been seeing a new guy who I really like. But when we tired to have sex I got nervous and would not let it happen. He said it was fine and I had nothing to worry about, and I explained myself but am worried that he is put off.We arranged a date again after this, but then he cancelled saying he was really busy and can we change the day. Is he put off by the fact that I'm a virgin? Would it be a turn off for most guys? And how do I overcome my fear and learn to relax in sex?
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reader, anonymous, writes (16 September 2013): The only reason a guy would be put off by the fact that you're a virgin would be if he's looking for a casual hookup. Odds are you're going to get pretty attached to him, so if he's not okay with that...ditch him!!! Also...don't rush things :) Maybe wait a few weeks and make sure you're happy with your decision before you do it?
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reader, dougbcoll  +, writes (16 September 2013):
 "is he put off by the fact that I'm a virgin?" that should be a plus in any guys eyes, and heart.another plus is he is not pushing you . " would it be a turn off to most guys?" should be the opposite, and an honor to be with you. don't rush it,whats the hurry.
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reader, CMMP +, writes (16 September 2013):
You probably need to wait for awhile, until you're more comfortable. Sometimes it just takes time.
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