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writes:Well I know this guy who I meet trough my friends,we spoke couple of time and thats it and i never actually felt attracted to him or anything. So last weekend when I went to my friends 15th birthday party, he was there. We started a conversation then we dance, hugged and even hold hand couple of times. Everyone thought we where together and one woman even stopped me and pointed out how cute we where together and the way his eyes sparkled when he looked at me. He was very nice and sweet and we had such a great time together. I've really felt something between us that night.I have seen him couple of time in school after that but we never discussed what happened during party.The thing is I dont know if we were just playing or he also felt the same thing I did. I'm really confused, can you help?What should I doThank You.
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reader, Dr. John +, writes (11 February 2007):
 It could simply be that he is waiting to see where you want to go with this. It sounds like he has knocked the ball into your court so now its your play. Give the fire a little more fuel but not so much that you smother the flame. Just go to him and say hello and go from there. Things should go naturally from there. Doc.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2007): I think that he does feel the same way you did. After all he wouldn't have done what he did at your friend's birthday party if he didn't. If you want reassuring ask how he feels about you. If you like him and he likes you then there's no harm in having a non-sexual relationship.
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reader, AskEve  +, writes (11 February 2007):
 Next time you see him in school go up to him and say "Great party last week, did you enjoy it?" It's an opening for him to reply. Keep the conversation going and let him know he's cool and you really enjoyed his company. "I'd like to hang out with you again sometime" you could add. That lets him know you like him and it's now up to him whether or not he wants to see you again.
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