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writes: My new girlfriend's last boyfriend thumped her in the back because she said no to sex as she was having her period,and did not even consider that she may be a virgin. He was generally nasty to her during their 3 months together.How can I make our relationship work out between us as I am 14 years older than her with 2 kids from a previous marriage?
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reader, Phoebe Halliwell  +, writes (14 April 2006):
 Dear Reader,
Take it easy, make her feel welcome, special, loved and most of all, make her feel RESPECTED. Respect is one of the many things she didn't have in her last relationship. And by the way you've described it, anything could be better than her last one! Buy her the odd gift now and then, take her out to Dinner. Empty the house for once and have a cosy night in! Spoil her, but not too much, don't let her take you for granted. All The best and Hope You Find Your Happiness -
Phoebe xxx
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reader, tux  +, writes (2 April 2006):
 Go slow with her. Make sure she knows you are there for her and will not do anything she does not want to do. If youare expecting sex right away, then I would suggest you move on before you hurt yourself and her. she needs a little room before she can trust you. She's been hurt by guys before and problaly doesn't want to be hurt again. Telling her that you will not hurt her won't work.. you need to show her that you won't and make sure you don't.
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