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writes: A months ago I made up with ex bf after 2 yrs. He had cheated on me and everyone else. For the first time in his life he took 4 months without a gf and had a health scare then became a new person. We decided to keep it quiet for a while. Now his 2 exes are mailing, texting and calling. I feel so insecure. He has an online female he was to meet today but she cancelled on him. I know all this coz I have secretely got his password. I Think it's time we started going out like a proper couple so more people know we are together. So far it's just a rumour. I need help on how to do this. Already he thinks I don't trust him. I obviously cant tell him I read his mail. He has been perfect so far. Very attentive except he goes to clubs with his brother and friends every Friday. Help.
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reader, tux  +, writes (2 April 2006):
 Trust is key in a relationship. If you cant trust him, I doubt this relationship can go far. Obviously, you do not trust him. Though it appears like he's doing nothing to earn it, but that is a different issue in itself.
His actions though would also tell me that he is not trying to be faithful or even trying to gain your trust. His ex's can just be friendly. the more concerning part is him going clubbing with his brother and friends every friday.. does he ever invite you? and what is his reaction if you ask to join him? Once and awhile I can see, but not every friday ie a big date night and a big nite and meet up for dates. and if he was meeting up with a girl... that in itself is bad.. If it were just as friends, why didn't he tell you? or why is he even bothering? I just have major concerns on this and you may want to tread carefully before going further.
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