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writes:I tried anal sex for the first time with my bf, and it hurt so I told him too pull it out even before it got all the way in. When I got home, and used the restroom -number2- I realized my anus was bleeding. This is the second day that it's been hurting. I'm wondering how long it will take for it too stop bleeding, and if this is normal. please help :(
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reader, Tisha-1 +, writes (30 July 2010):
 You should always go see a doctor when you experience anal bleeding. It could be just an anal fissure due to trauma, but it could be something much worse. Pain and bleeding is our bodies' way of saying "something's wrong here!" and it is wise and prudent to get it checked out. Please go see your doctor.
Take care.
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): yes its normal for the first time. be careful, take it slow, and lube, lube, lube, lube...mal
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reader, boo22  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Please listen to Honeypie!!!!! x
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reader, chigirl  +, writes (29 July 2010):
 You can bleed from anal sex, but it shouldn't continue for days. I am afraid that if it continues, and it is more than just a few droplets a day, you need to see a doctor. But if it is just a few droplets and it stops soon, it is probably nothing worse than a scratch (which is why it hurt) and that it can take a little to heal up if you got a deep cut.
Next time, if you ever want to try anal again, you need to relax more and use more lube. Anal should not hurt, if it hurts you need to go more slow or use more lube, or not do anal at all. Sex isn't supposed to make you hurt...
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reader, Miamine +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Go to the doctor...
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reader, anonymous, writes (29 July 2010): Dont do anything that is going to hurt you or that you feel uncomfortable with doing. If your bf can't understand that, then move on.....
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reader, model101_t800 +, writes (29 July 2010):
 Ouch! This fantasy is supposed to be pleasurable. Pain and bleeding indicate incorrect approach.
It will get well in a few days if you take care. If not then it will take weeks to heal and will hurt.
You may have ruptured the veins inside. Here are things that will help you -
(1) Eat fibrous foods
(2) Drink lots of water (I mean lots..minimum 8 glasses everyday)
(3) Avoid fried food and food with too much protein for a few days, Protein will make stool more acidic which will hurt during evacuation
(4) Use OTC ointments for hemorrhoids. They will help with pain.
(5) Do not sit at one place for too long. Walk around to prevent blood from accumulating.
(6) Check out some homeopathic pills at Wholefoods or Fruitfull Yield for hemorrhoids. They will speed up healing inside.
(7) Do sitz bath (google it)
(8) If hurts too much then put ice there to stop bleeding and reduce pain temporarily.
Next time try with a better approach. Check some good informative videos on anal sex at bettersex dot com.
I pray you get well soon.
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reader, Honeypie + ♥, writes (29 July 2010):
 PLEASE PLEASE STOP having Anal sex.
Anal sex may make a person more susceptible to bacterial infection around the anus and rectum. This is because the lining of the rectum is not as heavy as the lining of the vagina, so it is more susceptible to tears. If the anus or rectum does get torn, it does not heal as quickly. Because feces that pass through the rectum contain bacteria, any tear in the lining is at risk of getting infected. Lining tears may lead to other problems such as an anal abscess, which can make transmission of STIs and HIV more likely. This is why unprotected anal sex is often considered riskier than unprotected oral or vaginal sex. The tips above will help you avoid tears and other uncomfortable complications.
In extreme cases, a tear in the lining can develop into a fissure (a larger tear or crack) and may extend outside of the bowel. This is called a fistula and it is a significant medical issue because it allows feces to pass outside of the bowel, and requires major surgery to repair.
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