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anonymous
writes: why is being middle child a nightmare.i always treated like i am stupid.i am 28 years old and my father is still telling me what to do.telling me where i can go and what i am allowed to spend my money on.telling me what i am able for or not.i have ask him can i do this or that,and he usually said NO TO JUST ABOUT EVERY THING.i have no friends and no boyfriend.as middle child its not easy,i hate the boring town i live in .
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reader, pebble  +, writes (24 May 2009):
 Wow, are you seeing things? uniquescreenname didn't say anything that even remotely sounded like she was judging you. In fact she wrote a very help, lengthy answer on your other post.
We point out other posts you have posted here because it may help with a little more detail or help us answer the question better.
All that is coming accross now is that you like being the victim. And really, you're a little old to be playing that game.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): This ain't about your dad or being the middle child. Your 28 and refusing to assert your rights as an adult. On some level, you must enjoy being the victim and having crap to complain about or else you'd establish independence like most adults. Do something about it.
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2009): uniquescreenname i have hard life with nothing in it. so don't go judging me when you know nothing about me. all i am is bee in your ear. so don't go complaning over a question if you are you sad.
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reader, pebble +, writes (24 May 2009):
So move, do something about it. If you don't assert your independance then your Dad will treat you like this forever. You need to make the change, not them.
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reader, Emilysanswers +, writes (24 May 2009):
Just leave!
He doesn't have access to your bank account, he doesn't lock you up at night.
Just get online, find a job in a new town and just go. Move out.
Or you could just stand up to him and tell him you'll do what you want because you are 28.
Good Luck!! xx
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