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writes:Me and my ex have been trying to get back together for 3 months but today he told me there might be another female out there that maybe 3 months pregnant with his child, but he doesn't know for sure. my question is should I stay and wait to see if it true or should I just say goodbye and walk away
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 July 2011): Please say goodbye and walk away. This is not something you want to put yourself through. It's exactly as CaringGuy has laid it out - say goodbye pronto. My friend took her husband back after he was still with her but had had a child with another person and she said it is trully terrible as the child always comes first and she is constantly reminded of his infidelity.
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (27 July 2011):
1 - He's an ex. That means there were problems there before that weren't addressed properly by you two as a couple. Therefore, it's highly likely that the same problems will exist even if you get back together.
2 - You say you've been trying to get back together for 3 months, and that this woman is pregnant by 3 months. Well, if he got her pregnant at the same time as he was trying to get back with you, I'd say that shows quite a lot of disrespect. He must have been seeing her at the same time, and can't have been bothered about contraception. Not a good sign.
3 - If the child is his, then that child will always come first (rightfully so). But are you realistically going to be able to handle him playing happy families with another woman and their child, knowing it was conceived at the same time he was trying to get back with you.
Truthfully, I think it would be a total disaster for you to go back to this man. I think you should say goodbye.
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