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*oCurious
writes:My Boyfriend of 1 year told me his fantasy would be to sleep with 2 girls at the same time. i would like to fulfill his fantasy, but at the same time, i dont want to watch him have sex with another girl. and i know i will probably get jealous if this girl has a more attractive figure than mine. or Better than me. if anything i would want it to be with someone i wouldnt have to worry about us ever seeing again. Please Help.
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reader, Sweetpea504 +, writes (20 September 2010):
i think that it would definitly ruin your relationship its not healty for you and someone you love.my old college friend did it once and later found out that the other lady wanted her that could happen also and you dont really wanna do that maybe keep it as a fantasy but far as another woman goes in a threesome it could backfire on him that woman may want you lol. But dont do the threesome girl
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reader, multitalented  +, writes (30 August 2010):
Don't do it. Its simple. Try to fulfill his fantasy by role playing. By jointly exploring your sexuality. tell him of your fears, but also tell him what turns you on.
After exploring both of your inner most fantasies together all other things will come to light and discoveries together will keep you together.
Enjoy
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reader, SoCurious +, writes (25 August 2010):
SoCurious is verified as being by the original poster of the question that last anonymous reader that posted..
"Hey Bernard,what the heck is "manajatwas"??? I think I got some of that by mistake with my curried chicken last night at Indian take out."
u just became my favorite. lol.
Thanks to all for your point of views.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): Hey Bernard,what the heck is "manajatwas"??? I think I got some of that by mistake with my curried chicken last night at Indian take out.
"Menage a trois" is a french expression which translated into english means "I totally want to screw up my relationship by having 3-way sex"
If your b/f wants to sleep with 2 women set up a slumber party with his grandmothers. Don't do it! It will wreck your relationship. If he insists, then dump him and move on.
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reader, anonymous, writes (25 August 2010): It's simple, don't do it. The fact that you've come here to check shows that you're a nice girl and not the type that would do that sort of thing.
Most guys like the idea of it, but it doesn't mean it has to happen! Everyone I've ever known that has done it and haven't been strange, have always ended up breaking up.
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reader, TimmD +, writes (25 August 2010):
 You want to fulfill his fantasy, yet you don't. Which means, you don't. Don't feel guilty, threesomes aren't general for people in love. In my opinion, if he truly love you he shouldn't want to have a threesome. He should only want you.
But that's just my opinion.
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reader, SoCurious +, writes (25 August 2010):
SoCurious is verified as being by the original poster of the questionThank you very much for your responses. i agree with both of you.. and Yes, "some fantasies are best kept as fantasies"... i couldnt of said it better myself. Thank You Guys**
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reader, CaringGuy  +, writes (25 August 2010):
You know you'll get jealous and you know you won't be able to take it. This is a bad idea, and will probably ruin your relationship. This is something best kept as a fantasy.
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reader, cocoqueen88 +, writes (25 August 2010):
 You don't sound like the threesome kind of girl. Even if it was with someone you'd never have to see again it probably still wouldn't be enjoyable for you. All sexual experiences should be good for everybody involved. Besides 9 times out of 10 a threesome will just ruin your relationship anyways.
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