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Three months in and I'm conflicted. Should I stay in the relationship or end it?. I'm really lonely.

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Question - (8 January 2012) 1 Answers - (Newest, 8 January 2012)
A female Canada age 41-50, *rummyscreenname writes:

Hi everyone

I have been dating this guy for about 3 months and im kind of conflicted.

Part of me wants the relationship to end but part of me thinks that I'm just being stupid. It's like I can't be satisfied.

If the relationship continues, I'll continue being unsatisfied with it. Whenever the threat of the relationship is there, however, I can't seem to deal with the idea of it ending. (Like today he hasn't answered the phone when I called which makes me wonder if he wants to break up with me, and the idea of being broken up makes me sad). I don't know what my problem is! And I don't know what to do, whether I should stay in the relationship or end it. I'm really lonely.

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A female reader, Ciar Canada +, writes (8 January 2012):

Ciar agony auntIt would help us to help you if we knew what it was you were unsatisfied about. Is he doing or not doing something wrong? Or are you just not passionate about him, but would miss him if he weren't around?

What makes you think that one day of not hearing from him is a bad omen? How long do you normally go without any word from him?

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