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My husband is still emotionally attached to his ex-girlfriend!

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Question - (10 June 2012) 3 Answers - (Newest, 11 June 2012)
A female United States age 41-50, *ade711 writes:

Here is some background. My husband and I have been together for 17 years and married for 12 of those years.

He is still emotionally attached to his first girlfriend. When they dated 22 years ago, he was 16 and she was 14.

I am so hurt that he is STILL emotionally attached to her. He had made an effort to be a better husband, because we have been having marriage issues, but how can I go on knowing this?

Any help on this would be good! Thank you!

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (11 June 2012):

So_Very_Confused agony auntAgree we need more info.

In what way is he still attached to her.

I mean I have fond memories of my first boyfriend. I have tons of memories of good times with former partners… including ex husbands…. But that does not mean I’m attached to them

How is he emotionally attached to her still?

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A female reader, AuntyEm United Kingdom +, writes (11 June 2012):

AuntyEm agony auntIn what way is he still attached?

Are they in touch?

Do they see eachother?

Does he talk about her all the time?

Need a little background before I can answer.

xx

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A female reader, anonymous, writes (11 June 2012):

Just wondering, how do you know he's still emotionally attached to her?

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