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*lubi
writes:i am a married women in love with a married men who is involved with my collegue. they have a child together and we all work together. to make things worse the wife hate my collegue but likes me, she invites me without knowing that i am involved with her husband, he says he loves me but i dont think so because he doesn't have time for me but i love him so much i dont know what to do anymore. Reply to this Question
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reader, anonymous, writes (15 October 2010): Perhaps yu need to seek the advice of your elders in your culture. Polygamous relationships are acceptable?? Seems like you are not too fussy who you get with, you are happy being Mistress # (what?) So speak to your hb and tell him its time to open your marriage. Perhaps don't. Be too shocked, your hb will be doin the same as well.
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reader, dirtball  +, writes (14 October 2010):
 Stop cheating. Tell everyone the truth. Prepare for the fallout.
Seriously, what were you thinking? You're cheating on your husband with someone who is cheating on his wife and you! What were you hoping to get out of this mess?
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reader, dmartin89  +, writes (14 October 2010):
 I know that this isnt what you are going to want to hear but..
You need to stop this now!
It sounds like this guy is using you to get some more excitement back into his life. If he loved you like he says he would leave his wife for you.
What about your relationship with his wife? It sounds pretty fake to me. Tell this guy to get therapy with his wife. Dont ruin this family, the happiness of thier child is the most important thing here. Please don't rip apart this family because of your own infatuation..
If you carry on with this, you will lose your friends, any respect that people have for you and its likely that he will do the same thing to you. Or is seeing other women as well as you!
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