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female
age
30-35,
anonymous
writes:Since Christmas i've been seeing this guy who used to be going out with a girl I know. Me and her are not best mates or anything but me and him decided to keep it quiet. At first things were going really good between me and him and then she found out and things got difficult with me and him. He became distant and acted different to the way he did before she knew. BeBefore he told me alot of things about their relatioship like how she cheated on him, how she aborted his baby and other things. Now he does not tell me the way he feels he keeps very quiet about things. I thought they may get back together but he had a chance and turned her down. That was a few months ago and he still seems different. He gets jealous over me and he is still very affectionate when we are together constantly kissing me kissing my forehead, my nose, my shoulder. He looks deep into my eyes and makes excuses to see me. In the bedroom things are very passionate and unlike anything i've experienced before he kisses me and takes things very slow, he is always looking out to please me. Me and him spoke and decided to be friends but I can tell their is still feelings there when i asked him if i was just sex to him he said no that i was more than that that i was the girl he let go because he is to scared to get in a relationship and when i joke he's missing out he tells me that he know and says other things that make me feel like there may be a chance for me and him. Could you give me any advice on this?
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reader, Abella  +, writes (22 January 2012):
 it must have been a busy time when you posted this question. And sadly you received no answers. It is a reasonable question.
Since then have things worked out? Or can the Aunts and Uncles on Dear Cupid perhaps help you further even though this happened a while ago?
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