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writes:I have been with my boyfriend 3 years on and off. In the past lots of stuff has happened... The good and the bad. He regularly goes off me, and starts speaking to others girls and leaves me in the dark, then whenever I leave him... A week later he will be begin to be back together, make promises and for the first few days is my ideal boyfriend. Then after a while it all dies off. Then I'm left to be the one chasing him, calling him, texting him etc... I do love him. But I just don't know what to do anymore? It feels as though he only wants me when he can't have me? He never compliments me, or tells me his feelings. I'm just so fed up of the situation.
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reader, sharlou17 +, writes (11 February 2011):
 Ohhh I so know how your feeling...
This is exactly the same thing that was happening to me recently with my ex...
All i can tell you is even though you may adore him and cant seem to get off this mad rollercoaster you gotta try...Thats what i did recently (even though it feels like the toughest thing i have ever done)
You just have to be strong and say to yourself 'No' no more...Your worth much more than this...If you allow this to go on it will go on and on and on...And will end up destroying you as your left constantly thinking...'what on earth did i do so wrong?' Because trust me i felt like that for so long...
Be strong end the madness...I wish you luck and strength...
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): I'll tell you what I did when I was 20, and had a girlfriend. I was with her every chance I got. Even one day was too much time to miss. We've been married 35 years now.
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