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anonymous
writes:I am 19 and have being seeing someone since November. he is 7 years older than me. We live in the same area in fact really close. I only see him when he wants to see me. He txts me everyday and asking how i am, but if i text him it takes him hours about 2 or 3 hours to text back even when i know hes in the house. I dont think he is seeing anyone else but I am suspicious at how many random girls he adds on a social network site and thats how i got to know him.He takes me out for a drink and meals but it is only for a couple of hours and only once a week. I have been going to his house lately but that is just because his grandparents are not there at the moment. I have never met any of his family or friends, in fact I know they dont know I exist. He wants to take me a way for a night and we have done this before.I think I am being played. I am thinking of telling him I am sick of this relationship, as he says that we are in a relationship but it doesn't feel like one to me. What should i do?
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reader, TEM  +, writes (11 February 2011):
 Your instincts are correct. These short dates, and only when he is available, most likely mean your relationship is not exclusive. If he has led you to believe otherwise, then he is not being honest with you.
If he has not told you the relationship is exclusive, I imagine he thinks you are accepting of it. If you are not, you should end it and find someone that will give you the time and attention you deserve.
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 February 2011): Advice from an older male: You are being used, sweetie. If he was hep to you, you could not even keep him away. He has no respect for you. Get rid of him, quick. P.S. He's too old for you.
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