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writes:*Sigh* I think I just lost a man because of a woman...I met Frida on saturday and she really fascinated me, I mean she was sooo confident and mysterious and smart! I'm on the rocks with my guy. I feel used one moment and loved the next...he found out that I liked her and now, I haven't heard from him all day which isn't normal. I don't know what to do, what to feel. Frida is just a crush I think since I'm not exactly attracted and despite some issues, he means a lot to me. He's hinted that he loves woman on woman things but he's mad at me!... I don't know what to do. I want to call him but don't know if I should or even what to say. I feel horrible...what do I do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (6 October 2010): I can be an issue for your bf/gf if they find out you are attracted to another no matter what gender the other person is. Some people find homosexual activities particularly offensive.
Would it be ok with you if he was attracted to another woman or man?
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reader, kerbear75  +, writes (6 October 2010):
I would not phone and say sorry, you have not done anything wrong.
A crush call fall in many catagories. Being on the rocks with him may have been a large factor in you feeling something for Frida.
Fact is, I am sure he's had a crush or two also.
Give him time to cool down, and talk it out, as strotuimdog said, tell him what you just told us. If he doesn't except that, I would tend to believe there is more to his fight and maybe it's just he easiest way out.
Good Luck
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reader, Mimi7682  +, writes (6 October 2010):
Ofcourse call him, "you" screwed up remember. If you're inlove it is often ok sometimes to suck up. Apologize "Babe it will never happen again, I'm so sorrryyy I was wrong" He will forgive you trust me. And move on... Make him laugh hahahaha
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