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Texting, coming over, then ignoring me! Why?

Tagged as: Breaking up, The ex-factor, Troubled relationships<< Previous question   Next question >>
Question - (14 January 2013) 3 Answers - (Newest, 15 January 2013)
A female United States age 30-35, anonymous writes:

me and my bf broke up he couldn't handle a gf at the moment ignored me for about 2 weeks finally came over had a great night then a couple days later ignored me again. came over again everything was perfect between us slept over and then I mentioned one of my exs name not in any way to be with them or anything just mentioned it throu text and he flipped and hated me ignored but came over that night and then all of a sudden 2 days later he ignored me out of nowhere I called n texted him doesn't respond I have no clue what I did hes joined the army soon but I have no clue what I did or why hes doing this. I get no explanation as to why this happening im confused

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A female reader, So_Very_Confused United States +, writes (15 January 2013):

So_Very_Confused agony auntyou didn't do anything other than think he wanted more than to get laid.

It's over. He's joined the army and will be leaving and trust me you don't want to do LDR with a guy without a perfect track record to begin with...

He came by to see if he could get sex. He got sex.

He'll be back when he's horny.

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A female reader, CindyCares Italy +, writes (15 January 2013):

CindyCares agony aunt I think you are under the impression you got back together, and he is now being a bad boyfriend.

But he sees it differently, I suppose. He told you he cannot handle a gf. Obviously though he can handle casual sex at his convenience. He is just being a normal FWB.

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A female reader, Denise32 United States +, writes (15 January 2013):

Denise32 agony auntOkay, let me ask you a question: just what do you think "breaking up" means?

He then comes to your place three times after his announcement and has sex with you.

So, once more: what do you understand him to be saying when he made his announcement about breaking up and not being able to handle a girlfriend, but then continued sleeping with you?

Think about it, and I believe you'll have your answer......

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