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writes:I am just confused and need some help as I have no one else to talk to. I recently went on holiday in Greece with my friends. I met this guy from England aswell whilst over there. We just clicked well so I thought. We spent the majority of the time together and I may have done a stupid thing by sleeping with him but he seemed genuine. He conplimented me and made me feel so special. He even asked me to make a promise that I'd keep in touch with him whilst we were both back in England. The thing is we've now both been back for a week and he hasn't been in touch. I have text him a few times and I can see he's seen my messages but he's just ignoring them. I just feel a mug. Do you think I just need to let it go and leave him be or try a bit more because I do like him???
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reader, anonymous, writes (27 August 2014): Thank you guys, I have learnt a big lesson for next time. I will be more careful from now on and shall keep my legs closed no matter the sweet nothing's a guy will say.
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reader, Anonymous 123  +, writes (27 August 2014):
 Let it go and try to move on. You were a holiday romance for him, a quick fling, and now that its done, he wants nothing more to do with you. Henceforth remember not to jump into bed this easily with a guy because guys will say just the right things and make you feel like a Miss World just to get you into bed. They don't mean a word of it.
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reader, sugarplum786  +, writes (27 August 2014):
 Its a holiday romance and nothing more. He probably has a GF and also was just in it for the sex. Let this go. It was over before it even started. Time for you to move on. Don't sleep with any guy no matter how much they flatter you and promise you the world until you are sure its real. And it takes a couple of months before you can even start to think there is potential.
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reader, Honeypie  + ♥, writes (26 August 2014):
 I think, for YOUR own sake, that you need to let it go and move on.
There isn't anything MORE you can do. If he doesn't even bother to reply to a text from you, what else can you do? Text some more for him to ignore? Call him so he can ignore your call?
Don't feel bad, you had a summer fling, but hoped for more. HE didn't - he got sex on his vacation and that was all he wanted.
My advice, try not to get carried away when on holiday in the future, it's so easy to get swept up in the ambiance of hot summer nights, beer and a hot fella.
But.. don't feel like a mug. Just remember sometimes a guy will say exactly what you want to hear to get you in bed.
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