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writes:Im 15, and ive been seeing an 18 year old for the last month, 'seeing' someone is basically seeing how it goes, not in a relationship. the only problem with this is, its been a month and he doesn't talk to me as much as i would like.. and he doenst show much interest. but when im with him it feels amazing, this isnt the problem though. Today after two weeks of not seeing him, i went to see him and the first thing he told me is 'im going in the navy so in four months you wont be able to see me.' i think this is why he doesnt show much intrest in me, but i dont want to ask him because he's not the kind to talk about his emotions.Now, the question is, should i stay with him for the next four months, make as many memories as possible and be really heartbroken after,or should i call it off and say i dont want to get hurt when he leaves.. and he goes to the next girl, and once again - be really heartbroken. i just need advice on what to do please
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reader, sammy1986 +, writes (1 July 2011):
i personally would finish it now before you really start to fall for him then he has to go away
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reader, aunt honesty  +, writes (1 July 2011):
 You have said yourself he doesn't show much interest in you at the minute. Therefore I think the best thing that you can do now is cut your ties before you end up getting really hurt. He didn't seem to take your feelings in to consideration when he told you he was going away it sounds like he just said it matter of factly. Therefore why should you end up heartbroken when he gets of free. Be the bigger person and finish it now.
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