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writes: This is a sex question. I have been with my b/f for almost 3 yrs, in the beginning things were great. Then he started drinking real bad, getting physical, very jealous, accuses me of sleeping with every man that crosses or path. I love my b/f, and he still wants to have sex everytime I turn around. but I can't, all the fighting and accusations, it turns me off. I have tried telling him why i dont want to have sex when that part of him comes around. If he was sweet, loving like he use to be, I would love to make love to him. Things are so bad i want to leave, but i dont want to be a quitter. how can i get through to him, or should i leave? sometimes he makes my skin crawl when he tries to touch me. I cant have sex with someone who constantly yells, hits, accuses. He has made my self esteem so low, I dont even want to get cleaned up. what should i do?
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reader, anonymous, writes (4 June 2005): Thank you kris, sometimes it seems like i am alone.
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reader, kris +, writes (3 June 2005):
I have no good answer for you, I am responding just to let you know that you are not alone. I am in the same situation as you are and I don't know what to do either. Taking the advice of "just dump him" is easier said then done. Good luck
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reader, anonymous, writes (24 May 2005): I agree. Leave him. Maybe that's just what he needs to get his life together and yours too.
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reader, Shezgray +, writes (24 May 2005):
I have been with my husband for 19 years. My marriage is very similar to yours. The only thing different is my husband doesn't hit me. If you want my advice, RUN. Get away as soon as possible. You need to value yourself more than you do. You want someone to treat you as you would treat them. I am serious! Please go. The hurt and anger will always stay with you and you will never feel the love and desire you did before this all began.
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reader, wwww.datinghaven.com +, writes (23 May 2005):
LEAVE!!!!!
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reader, Wildberries +, writes (23 May 2005):
This has NOTHING to do with being a quitter. He is not loving you when he puts you in that postion. If it is really as bad as all that, GET OUT!!!.There are an amazing number of truly great men in this world, just waiting for someone to love.... Go find one... You are worth it!!
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