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He won't tell me what the problems are. He just wants us to have a break...

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Question - (23 May 2005) 1 Answers - (Newest, 24 May 2005)
A , anonymous writes:

hey

I'm dating a guy who is older than me by two years. I'm 20 and he is 22. He has a kid coz he was married. Things were cool but not anymore. He really changed towards me with no reason. I tried to know why but the answer was "let's take a break, please don't call me. I promise I will call you soon but after getting rid of all the problems I'm facing".

I tried to know about the problems so I can offer some help but nothing coz he answered by saying "you don't have to know".

Am really suffering because I think that am in a deep love with that guy..

please i need to get your answer

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A reader, Christie +, writes (24 May 2005):

I would try not to worry too much. I know this is very difficult as you are experiencing strong feelings for this guy, but the way to help him right now is to trust him and give him what he says he needs, which is space. He cares for you, he said he would call once he has dealt with the things he needs to deal with. By saying you dont need to know he is probably just trying to protect you. It may simply be he is going through something he feels he can only do alone. Hang in there and trust him. Hope this helped.

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