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Am I just being possessive, or do other girls do what mine does?

Q.   I just want to know, is it common for girls to be out with their boyfriends and look at other guys and think they are hot, then when confronted about it deny that they were looking? Am I being possessive or does everyone do it?...

A.   24 August 2005: I can relate to this topic hugely. Is she really looking and flirting, or is it your imagination? I was accused of this same thing everytime my boyfreind and I went out in public. I love to people watch, men, women, children, you name it, but ... (read in full...)

I get nothing but criticism and accusations from my boyfriend. What should I do?

Q.   Hi, I am a 19 year old male and I'm in a relationship with a 40yr old male. We have been having problems now for months. He spends more time with everybody else with me. He's nasty to me, he puts me down, he tries to stop me talking to my family and ...

A.   24 August 2005: I agree with everyones responses. I have been through it. I still love him, but I also realize he will never change no matter how much talking I do. I am the stupid female that knows nothing, and he is the dominant male that knows all. I lost my ... (read in full...)

Help me decide if I should leave my partner...

Q.   Should I leave and be with someone new? I've been with the same man for 5 yrs, my first love. We have a child togther but lately all we do is fight and he is verbally abusive towards me and brings my self esteem down. I feel that we're falling ...

A.   18 August 2005: I was in the same situation, the only difference is my kids was from a previous marriage which made it worse. I finally stepped up for myself and had the courage to end it. It wasn't easy, and I am sure it would be alot harder because he is the ... (read in full...)

My boyfriend takes "exclusivity" very literally!

Q.   The man I love doesn't want to be with me unless he can be with me literally for 24 hrs a day. Wwhat is your advice?...

A.   19 July 2005: I just walked from my relationship because that was the situation I was in. He eventually got controlling and verbally abusive, and whenever I mentioned giving me some space, he immediatly got defensive and thought I just wanted time to myself so I ... (read in full...)

No matter what I do, I think of reasons not to trust him...

Q.   I have been with my fiance for a little over a year. I can't seem to trust him no matter what I do. I am always accusing him of something, even though I know it is only in my head. I have had two bad relationships in the past and have a child ...

A.   21 June 2005: If you know in your heart he can be trusted, then start trusting him and showing you do. It is the opposite in my relationship and it is driving me insane and prevents me from loving him totally. Trust is so important, and it is breaking my heart ... (read in full...)

Sometimes he makes my skin crawl when he touches me, but my bf wants sex all the time!

Q.   This is a sex question. I have been with my b/f for almost 3 yrs, in the beginning things were great. Then he started drinking real bad, getting physical, very jealous, accuses me of sleeping with every man that crosses or path. I love my b/f, and...

A.   3 June 2005: I have no good answer for you, I am responding just to let you know that you are not alone. I am in the same situation as you are and I don't know what to do either. Taking the advice of "just dump him" is easier said then done. Good luck ... (read in full...)

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