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writes: I have suspected for a while that my husband is having an affair with my work colleague. The way that they look at each other etc. We all attended a wedding recently and my husband kept having a go saying how dreadful she looks on the dance floor etc. Then later on in the evening he told me that 'he loves her to death'. Then kept taking pictures of her. I caught them together whispering to each other. I didn't want to cause a scene as it was someone else's special day. He even called me by her name twice when we were in bed. I am very angry. My question is, what do I do next?
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reader, anonymous, writes (11 August 2006): check out:
http://www.pimall.com/NAIS/n.spouse.html
http://love.ivillage.com/lnsproblems/lnscheating/0,,nt4p-p,00.html
So if he is cheating on you; what do you plan to do?
Hire a detective...get evidence and then divorce him for adultry?
Have him tailed for two weeks or more.
Get some counselling.
Drop the bomb then once you have the dirt. Watch his reaction. Watch him squirm.
What do you think you will do once it comes out? Divorce?
In the end, you have more say and more power then you think. Can you see a future of forgiving him and trusting in him to never cheat again?
I hope things get sorted out.
*hugs*
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reader, auntie claire +, writes (7 August 2006):
 dear reader, you need to confront him with this and you need to do it now and find out the truth. if you can get any joy from him then talk to your "friend" if she or he have any kind of feelings for you they should tell you the truth.
either way don't beat yourself up about it none of this is your fault even if it turns out to be nothing i would have my suspitions too if i was in your situation
Get it sorted out now don't leave it any longer
all the best i hope you find your answers
good luck xxx
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reader, kazzer30 +, writes (7 August 2006):
 the thing you need to do next is get him on his own and ask him straight out if he is seeing this girl or having a affair with her if he cant tell you then you no he has something to hide ask him if he wants to end the relationship with you if you feel like you could give him another chance then try it but you need trust and if you have no trust then you need to say your goodbyesyou no wot they say a lepeord never changes there spots
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